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I'm over here waiting to see O date. I spotted yesterday CD 15 so my spotting this cycle seems to have gone back to only one day instead of three around O time. I shall see if my temps give me crosshairs anytime soon. My chances are still slim with having MF to deal with. Last week, I didnt exercises one day. So. My focus of working out hasnt been great. And if anything. I've gained weight ugh. I have cut out caffeine period only drinking decaf. Guess now I really need to focus bbn on fearing way healthier even though I feel like I'm making healthier choices already.
On top of that my SO is complaining about the cost of the test $150 plus the $400 he owns for the ultrasound. And he told me that's all I have talked about for weeks is his MF. I guess since I have tried to not focus on myself and chatting on the boards like I was I have turned into talking to him about it. Which apparently he doesnt like. I cant win for losing. So I have vow to not say anything to him till after we go to the doctor on the 15th. I'm not even going to beg to BD or initate it since hes never in the mood, dang Low-T. Sadly, at this point it's not just about making a baby together I just want it in general. Really depress that I cant be motivated to lose weight and my baby making isnt happening as well.

@bug I'm sorry. It will get better soon. Sometimes we feel down...that's it.
As I told you men aren't as strong as we are...they don't want to talk about it... mine is the same. I try to give him space...He will come around ..
Yeah BD on schedule is stressful even for us...

@andrea. Thanks it is so hard. I didnt even know I was talking about it as much or about it with him. I guess it's because we finally actually have said we doing this. He keeps reminding me at least on the 15th we will know where we are at and what we need to do. Before being in a relationship with him which today marks 8 months since we have been together, I would workout like crazy and be more motivated now I cant seem to get in that jive. Plus, I even told him I made a mistake by jumping two steps and pressuring him into checking on his spermies. I really am hoping he produces a nice shiny ring in the near future because I want us to be married before a baby comes into the pic so that the birth certificate will my last name matches his and the baby. But of course all I have ever wanted was a family and I knew married woukdnt happen that quickly but still its definatley the goal.

@bug after 15th you will have some answers...till then enjoy your time with him and relax.

Hello I’ll join My HEDD is November 24th. Hoping for my rainbow FX

@Andrea I try not to get peoples hopes up too much, because I know that an extra estrogen surge around 5dpo is common, but the month I got pregnant with my youngest my chart looked almost exactly like that!!! 5dpo dip, rise on 8dpo, symptoms started on 8, and I got my BFP on 10. Good luck!!!! I’m gonna go take a take ladies! Be right back!!

Welcome Pearl! Where are you in your cycle right now? Looks like we have a lot of gals either right at O day or in their TWW. So exciting!!!
@beck I do not have exciting news today. My temp was still high, but came back down to 98.1 after that crazy surge to 98.5 yesterday. I got a bfn today. I think I can barely see a line, but I’m calling it a bfn. Hoping it’s not another ectopic. I am high risk for them. AF is due today, so I guess I will wait and see what happens.

@bug I’m sorry you’re having troubles with your SO. TTC is so hard mentally and emotionally. I hope you can find some peace together.

@Momma thank you for sharing...I don't have a problem with that..no broken dreams if is a bfn... but I am feeling weird..I want to test but I don't want my husband to know...

@andrea So exciting!!!
Here is my chart this morning. My temps are still so high. I just can’t imagine that AF would show today.