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@momma, I don’t temp. Ovulating caught me completely by surprise as I haven’t had my first period postpartum yet so I wasn’t tracking anything at all. As soon as I saw EWCM though i knew something was up and decided to test for ov.

Got my OPK's on order and currently temping. It's hard for me to temp as my baby still wakes every 2-3 hours all night long but it's still better to have some sort of baseline to go off. I've not heard back on whether my husband can get time away from base, I'm not hopeful but if he can't we will miss ANOTHER cycle. TTCing while in a long distance marriage is SO hard.

Lol! I say I won't be crazy every time af arrives... I always am. After 14 of them it has been hard not to be a total nutcase. We are in the process of saving up to buy a house so I have one test for the whole cycle and no more eek. I have to try not to use it too early or I'll have to wait until i'm a week late. Houses are offensively expensive here in NZ so Hubby is wearing his serious pants this month and is cracking down on my cray preg test fund lol.

@beckuhg, I was just thinking about that last night. My daughter woke me up twice. If I start over this next cycle I won’t be able to get an accurate temp because of it.

No more spotting through the night or this morning. That it wasn’t the precursor to AF.

@matarikigreen, that is hard. I am a poas addict so I wouldn’t be able to control myself. that you will be able to and get your BFP

AF is here and I'm disappearing from the site. My SO is basically not caring that it's not happening so I. going to focus on me. I hope all you have BFPs before I come back.

Hi ladies my name is Shanta and I am 41 year s old. I have been trying to conceive for 4 years. and I am currently in the 2ww. I had IUI done on Tuesday of last week so I have been going crazy waiting on my bfp.!! baby dust to you all!!

Bug please dont give up hope. We have all been there I have been trying for 4 years to nothing..dont give up love!

@matarik.. your comment made me giggle. He put his serious pants on. Lol
@bug I’m so sorry to hear AF arrived. Try to keep your chin up. Focusing on you is a really good idea. You need it.
@shanta Welcome! 4 years is a long time. You are a very strong and patient woman!
I’m getting my EWCM and had a temp rise today. I usually have that the day before O, so I’m expecting a big dip tomorrow.

Hi @shanta! Welcome welcome! Hope you've got a BFP coming your way! I've just found out my husband will NOT be home during O week, I'm expected to ovulate on the Thursday so hopefully we can catch that egg the weekend prior. It's not ideal, but its the best we can do with his stupid work.

@beck That is too bad. Sorry to hear that. I don’t know how you do it. You are stronger than I am for sure.