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Lalou thank you. It's so easy to beat myself up but I need to treat myself with kindness!

I hope you get your bfp this month!

Hi Ladies, so I feel horrible just by writting this post but I want to get you guys input on it (please with no judgment).
So I have this friend that is going through IVF and Im hoping for it to work out. She had her first try recently and the baby didnt stick. I know its a hard situation and obviusly she feel sad about it, but when she called she kept comparing loosing the baby (embrio not implanting) to my 14week miscarriage. I know obviusly she is in pain, and if she would have had a successful IVF she would have been 3weeks pregnant right now, but I feel its not comparable to what we went through and it made me feel angry inside. I cant really describe what I felt, but I dont feel she can compare our loss to theirs.

@Espence dont ever say you hate yourself, we are all a little poas addict and its completely normal.

I really hope all you leadies nearing the end of your tww get your bfp soon.

Vs. I hear what you are saying. I had a friend lose her baby at 13 weeks and I never compare my chemical to her loss.
Maybe she is just trying to connect in her grief? Every loss is a loss and can hurt. It's ok to be angry but still love and support someone. I'm sorry that you are having to deal with those emotions.

Thank you for encouraging me :) we are all a little poas

Hey ladies! @ttc I tried acupuncture when I fell pregnant with my daughter. I think it was the deciding factor that cycle. I'd had an ectopic previously xxx

Hi ladies! We have been ttc for 2 years now with nothing but bad luck, including more than a few chemicals. Had my last period december 21st and ovulated around january 4th. Trying really hard not to count each cycle day or dpo this time, so instead of apps I made a small note in my bujo of my lmp, +opk and next expected period. Hopefully that will help me stop counting each day. I feel like I was more relaxed when we where ttc our son, but that may be my imagination since it's almost 5½ years since he was born. And he took us 17 months to conceive (was conceived same cycle as a HSG).

Sending baby dust to all of you and I hope the new year brings a lot of bfp's.

@alexplpl I’m trying my best not to test before expected AF. After 18 months, I’ve started losing the 2ww jitters and just wait it out.

@pandorica hi there, have you thought about have another HSG? I have read on other post that some women get pregnant after the HSG, tried for #2 with no luck. They go in for another HSG and they get pregnant right after.

@lalou how are you feeling? I feel dreadful. In bed already (8.30pm) and not going to work tomorrow. My throat is on fire

I hate it when you use your last hpt and get a negative I swore I wouldn't buy anymore this month and then I bought 3 packets with 2 tests in each as it was 3 for 2! My cupboard is full of hpt tests xx

DeeCar05 - I have thought about it. But it's not that easy where I live, since it's a part of the fertility "check-up". We already have a child, so we are not allowed to do one unless we go to a private clinic. For me however, the problem doesn't seem to be to get pregnant, but to stay pregnant. Never had any chemicals when we where ttc our son, and this time I've had at least 10 of them..

@scubagirl I'm so hopeful that the acupuncture will also help me this time. I'm so anxious to give my son a sibling while he's still really young. It's nice to hear about success stories like yours, thanks!