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Of course it says not pregnant

Anna.... I'm sorry love. Digis are such a bitch. They need a higher hcg level which sucks. And seeing the words not pregnant is such a kick.
But remember... your not out till af shows. And digis need to be high hcg.

You are going to be pregnant. You will be an amazing mom

@espence personally I'm not one for that I kinda feel any test post period is accurate being it pregnant or not pregnant... Im just gonna hang out and wait for AF to show so we can get past this and try again...

Oh Anna I'm so so sorry. I know nothing I can say will take the hurt away but we are here for you. Take some time for yourself today. xxx

@vs - I would definitely consider that positive.
@Anna - Damn af! Sorry the witch showed up for you.

I'm just waiting for af to show. Still spotting and the line's still very faint, no progression there. So I know what's coming.. When we started TTC 2 years ago I had a feeling it would take some time to conceive, since our son took 17 months. But I definitely didn't think I would have so many months of faint lines that doesn't progress. I have tried getting help from the fertility clinic, but they won't help us since we already have a child. And the doctor I saw a year ago didn't count chemicals as misscarriages. She only said that "you're still young, you will get pregnant eventually". I'm still pissed about how she treated me. Sorry, just needed to rant a bit..

I'm actually not as upset as I thought I would be @scuba... I feel okay and I'm just glad it came and wasn't a case where I was late for how many days and then it suddenly comes pushing my fertile window back and everything... I didn't even cry this cycle which is good lol

Hi ladies,
Im sorry Anna that AF arrived. I had so much hope on you getting a positive this month. But I do get it that is better for AF to arrive on the day it should, instead of getting a lot of days of spotting or just being late.
Im sorry Pandorica that you keep spotting and all what is happening with the faint lines never progressing, Im scared that is going to happen to me this cycle.
And kait try and shake that bad feeing you have, being scared is only natural specially if you suffered a loss before. If you are worries about fertility issues try and talk to your doctor, but dont put yourself down with all those thoughts.
As for me I took another test this morning, I still see the line, but Im not sure I see progression. It could be because yeaterdays test was a 12mu and todays is a 25mu, but Im still worried it wont progress. If AF does not show I’ll be asking for bloodworks on Monday.

Hi ladies,
Im sorry Anna that AF arrived. I had so much hope on you getting a positive this month. But I do get it that is better for AF to arrive on the day it should, instead of getting a lot of days of spotting or just being late.
Im sorry Pandorica that you keep spotting and all what is happening with the faint lines never progressing, Im scared that is going to happen to me this cycle.
And kait try and shake that bad feeing you have, being scared is only natural specially if you suffered a loss before. If you are worries about fertility issues try and talk to your doctor, but dont put yourself down with all those thoughts.
As for me I took another test this morning, I still see the line, but Im not sure I see progression. It could be because yeaterdays test was a 12mu and todays is a 25mu, but Im still worried it wont progress. If AF does not show I’ll be asking for bloodworks on Monday.

Goodmorning ladies! Been a bit.
@Anna I'm so sorry AF came. That sucks. And that you experience all the symptoms of pg with it.
I ended up sending a message to my doctor on Tuesday because of this too. The two cycles after my CP in November have been so strange. Both TWW's I had such bad PMS I thought I was pregnant (sore boobs, nausea, dizziness, fatigue). The first cycle after I was having chills and hot flashes. This cycle I had intense mood swings, and I was cramping on and off. the entire second half of my cycle. My period came a touch late this cycle, it has been very light, and it's already over after 4 days, its normally 6 or 7. The doctor says its just my hormones regulating. He said we can either wait it out or go on the BCpill to restart things. That was so disappointing to me.... I was on the Pill before and I hated the way it made me feel and things took awhile to get back to normal afterwards that it feels like that would just stretch out the problem instead of solving it. Soooo I started doing my own research (I know you're not supposed to) and I'm going to start trying to do things to help regulate my hormones myself. I found out coffee is basically the anathema of female hormones... your liver and adrenal glands are too busy processing the caffeine and the stress hormones it releases to process estrogen and progesterone, and they end up way off balance. Also coffee strips your body of magnesium, which magnesium deficiencies can cause bad PMS. All that to say, this girl just ditched her 3-4 cup a day coffee habit and started taking magnesium. I'm also working on cutting down on sugar and processed/refined carbs. BIG change for me. We'll see what happens... I'm kindof glad we're out for this cycle so that I can give everything a chance to sort out without being consumed by the thought of pregnancy in the second half!
@Pandorica.... I feel for you girl. Your experience sounds so difficult... those CP's are emotionally painful and the wonky cycles and difficult doctors don't help. Secondary fertility issues are so frustrating because so many people don't seem to care. But you know we all have your back!!
@VS that line looks pretty promising to me! I'll cross my fingers for a dark one soon!!

Anna I’m so sorry girl.. Whatever I say at this point I know it won’t make you feel better. Hopefully in the next few days you feel better! Sending hugs

Kait I feel this way more than often unfortunately but truly we don’t know! We really don’t know and we probably at some point in the near future we gonna think about all those thoughts with our little ones in our arms and we’ll be laughing about it!

Vs girl I think this is your BFP