Scuba Yup! Waiting to start DTD is as frustrating to me as the TWW! Why can’t we be fertile the whole month like men are? Whyyyy? Sometimes I do believe that women are build not only to be tougher and more tolerant from men while In pain but also to be mentally stronger and with more patience comparing to them. I mean TWW and even more before O and TWW after O... Come on!!?! We’re heroes lol
2 years ago
Good morning guys so yesterday I had a full on meltdown my mom called and told me that she had casually dreamed that I had told her that I would never be able to have a child. Fucking great. So I was a bit of an asshole and was super short with her afterwards because I wanted to hang up and cry my eyes out. I literally cried the whole way home, it just sucks because I know it’s coming and I’m starting to have cramps and I just hate it. My husband agreed that we would start prepping for our fucking great. So I was a bit of an asshole and was super short with her afterwords because I wanted to hang up and cry my eyes out. I literally cried the whole way home, it just sucks because I know it’s coming and I’m starting to have cramps and I just hate it. My husband agreed that we would start prepping for our IUI but I’m just exhausted I kind of feel like throwing in the towel. But I know that won’t get me anywhere or anything so I have to keep going it’s just sooo hard
2 years ago
@Dee I'm so sorry you are having a rough few days. Keep your head up girl I know it's so hard, but one day you will feel that it was absolutely worth all of it, no matter the outcome. It will happen for you! Starting IUI is something different.. maybe that will be your baby story, and it will be perfect!
@Scuba, @Agatch, @Hot, @Photo, @alex and anyone else I missed, for you as you gear up for another round of BD! Make it fun ;) Hoping this is your month!
@Photo we have identical twins and they are such a blessing! You can absolutely do two babies at once. That would be so cool if you did conceive twins!
@Pandorica and @Anna and the others of you testing this weekend and in the next few days... can't wait to see your results!
@Shay I'm so sorry your going through all this crazy stuff... glad you have an appointment set up and I hope they can get to the bottom of it for you!
Update here: I am CD32, 15 dpo. I have some strange stitch and pinching in my lower abdomen and my chest still hurts on the sides and underarms. I occasionally feel super crappy and sick to my stomach but feeling good today. I did end up going out and getting a few tests when i was grocery shopping on Thursday. BFN. I now understand why everyone hates blue dye now though good grief. I have a digital left, but I'm currently resigned that this is not my month and won't test again till I'm late which would be CD34 or 17 dpo.
Hope you all can have a wonderful weekend!
2 years ago
Ugh, guess this brand are either really slow to show progression, or they just gives very nasty evaps.. The line is still there, but it's really slow at getting darker. I'm not even sure you guys see this, 'cause it's so faint and the quality sucks. This is from last night, the one I took an hour ago is basically the same. But it feels like af may show up at any time. I'm anywhere between 16 and 10 dpo.
2 years ago
@dee thats terrible I'm so so sorry I hope you have a baby soon !!
@teacher when are you testing again?
@pandorica I see the line and its pink i just dont think cheapies are good which is why I'm not trusting mine either... Hopefully they get darker in a few days
Update here: 12dpo and i didnt test again I just didnt see the point... AF is still a couple of days away but I am having cramping which is odd as well as super creamy milky cm and loads of it... Boob tenderness has spread to the sides and top of my boobs... Making me super suspicious
I'll test again tomorrow if I'm feeling it
2 years ago • Post starter
Anna I envy how much self control you have on not testing every day lol which CD are you now? Dpo? Sorry I know you told it somewhere before but I lost track.. I think you’re 8ish something dpo?
Dee... I’m so sorry girl! Ttc is so freaking tough and we all know how just one single phrase can set us off. People who never dealt with this will never understand even if they are our closest people and the ones who loves us the most. Most of the times even our SOs cannot fully understand what a mental battle this whole process is. But... we all in here can understand and I am sure that this is the best place to come and vent a little.. That dream you know is just your mothers fear.. she probably shouldn’t have told you because first of is just a dream and it doesn’t change anything and secondly because it is your fear also. But you know fears are not real. You’re an everyday witness in here of girls who were struggling for years and they made it. And my dear girl your turn is coming soon!!! If you need take some time off but don’t give up.. even now you may be pregnant! I’m sending big hugs your way with the hope you feel better soon!
Teachers Thank you and hopefully you’ll get two nice dark lines in the next few days
Pandorica Yes I see the shadow and I also read that IC are very slow to progress and not as sensitive as they claim but I would try with another brant too since I had so many non valid lines in the past few months with ICs. Really really hope that’s not the case for you and we all gonna congratulate you soon
2 years ago
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