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Morning everyone... Scuba I'm sorry AF is showing for you but hopefully it's the start of a new cycle...

So due date for me today... Woke up this morning completely happy but I feel like a wreck right now... I dunno why I felt like I could cope and I am I mean I havent cried in public yet but I'm totally feeling it... I just wanna go home now and be in bed the whole day... Didnt even talk to SO about I don't think he knows today is our due date... I am struggling with preferring that he doesnt know and saving him the hurt or just talking to him about it... I guess we'll see where my emotions go tonigjt

@Anna I'm so sorry today is a sad day Do what you need to to stay strong. Sometimes it's better to talk about it rather than bottling it up to yourself. I know my hubby always prefers to know why I'm feeling low. xx

Well I've popped a pad on for the third day and we'll see! Glad I didn't waste another test! xx

@Espence - YAY, congrats!!
@ItsAnna - Hugs to you, sorry that today is a sad day.

As for me, I'm everything between 11 dpo and like 3 dpo or something. It's so annoying not knowing what's going on. HPTs are negative or extremely faint so far, more like a shadow. I think I saw something faint this morning, that's a step up to a shadow. But still nothing I don't have to twist and turn to see. So nothing I can trust yet.

@scuba thanks babe I appreciate it... I think if he asks me what's wrong I'll talk about it but if he doesn't then I'll let it slip... I dont want to upset him because hes got a lot of stress as well but we'll see what happens...

@pandorica i hope you get that definite line soon girl and if you are 3dpo welcome back to the tww lol

Ladies I’m going to start taking my temp tomorrow morning, I’ve been told to take it sitting up then I’ve also been told to take it as soon as I’ve woke up and to not do anything ( so lying down) which is it please ?

@emma I take it as soon as I wake lying down.

So AF still not touching the pad. Where is it?!?!?! xx

Hi ladies just a quick checkup over here. I should be around 6dpo, but im not really sure because of all the ewcm I got after my predicted ovulation date. Anyways I have so much work piled on that I don’t have much time to think about the TWW.

@Anna, I totally get what you are feeling, and today being your due date. Our due date was December 22 and it was a hard day for both my husband and I. We had it marked in our calendars and never came to deleting it, so it was pretty sad when the alarm went off early that day.
Saying that, and I´m not sure if this is good advice or not, that day at night we decided to light up a candle and we talked about our lost baby, we talked about our feelings moving forward and trying for another baby, and just share our desires for the future. It was a nice way to have closure, and we kind of gave a different meaning to our due date. We didn’t receive a baby that day, but we were able to say goodbye to that baby, to a whole cycle that really never ended, and welcome the start of a new cycle.
I know you want to spare your SO of all the pain, but maybe (at least it was in our case) we needed to reach that due date together, and have that closure.

On a happier note @Espence CONGRATS, Im so happy you got your positive. It gives us all a ton of hope!!

@scuba thanks x

@vs thanks for sharing that babe I really appreciate it I was thinking of lighting a candle but talking about it isnt something that we really do... We cry about it and get sad but we dont talk about it... I dunno why we dont but it's just how it has been since the start

So, I'm not completely sure I see something and since I don't trust my eyes at all, I need yours. Anyone see anything? Perhaps the start of something?