Hi ladies just a quick checkup over here. I should be around 6dpo, but im not really sure because of all the ewcm I got after my predicted ovulation date. Anyways I have so much work piled on that I don’t have much time to think about the TWW.
@Anna, I totally get what you are feeling, and today being your due date. Our due date was December 22 and it was a hard day for both my husband and I. We had it marked in our calendars and never came to deleting it, so it was pretty sad when the alarm went off early that day.
Saying that, and I´m not sure if this is good advice or not, that day at night we decided to light up a candle and we talked about our lost baby, we talked about our feelings moving forward and trying for another baby, and just share our desires for the future. It was a nice way to have closure, and we kind of gave a different meaning to our due date. We didn’t receive a baby that day, but we were able to say goodbye to that baby, to a whole cycle that really never ended, and welcome the start of a new cycle.
I know you want to spare your SO of all the pain, but maybe (at least it was in our case) we needed to reach that due date together, and have that closure.
On a happier note @Espence CONGRATS, Im so happy you got your positive. It gives us all a ton of hope!!
2 years ago
@vs thanks for sharing that babe I really appreciate it I was thinking of lighting a candle but talking about it isnt something that we really do... We cry about it and get sad but we dont talk about it... I dunno why we dont but it's just how it has been since the start
2 years ago • Post starter
@Scuba I really hope AF either comes or stay away for good and let you move on from this cycle!
@kait Hi!! I hope you’re doing good.
@Emma good luck on this cycle! I usually take my temps lying down. That’s what I read.
@Anna I’m so sorry girl for having this bad day. Crossing fingers for you this month will give you your rainbow baby! You so much deserve it ????
@Pandorica I see that shadow on this test but don’t get me wrong I don’t want at all to get you disappointed and I’m so sorry if it seems like that it’s not my intention, I don’t have a good experience from internet cheapies and even though is a good alternative to have something so we don’t spend a fortune while on tww, I wouldn’t trust them till they give me a definitie line. I had so many false lines the past two cycles with them. Crossing fingers you get some darker ones on the next few days
AFM: I’m 13DPO today. AF is not here yet. Due day is tomorrow but my cycles has been a bit off lately so idk. Temperature is still the same for 3rd day in a row and all my symptoms are the same. Nothing really unusual. Only thing is that last night I had as I told y’all these period like cramps which now is not really here and not the same. Plus last night my cervix was low and this morning is really high. Idk much about CP though because I’m not used in checking it so idk if this is normal or what. Also I took an opk this morning cuz I’m out of pregnancy tests and it was pretty light. Idk if opks are truly can detect hcg hormone
2 years ago • Edited
@pandorica I think I see something too.
On another note, I went back and checked your opk. With mine the control line is the one closest to the green area. If your opk are like mine those are negative opk, since the like closer to where you pee in lighter than the control line. Saying that I think you are likely far away from 3dpo. On the other hand if your opk are backwards you might have just ovulated.
2 years ago
@pandorica I can also see the start of something (im on my computer so its really zoomed lol) but like Alex says they have pretty bad evaps/Indents and I also struggled with that so id wait to get a more definite answer but I hope its a positive for you
@alex thanks girl I appreciate it... I hope the cramps and symptoms are good signs and that AF doesn't show her face tomorrow... You deserve a baby more than anything and I still have my fingers crossed for you
@espence I'm okay my one friend found out she's pregnant today and excitedly messaged me... Unfortunately she's past 5 weeks and her hcg is only in the 200's... I am super happy for her but I can't help but feel like it's a really low number to have past 5 weeks (I think she's 5 weeks 2 days) and I don't want to feel this way and I don't want to even imagine it but I think I find it harder to be positive over her pregnancy when her levels are that low because mine was as well and it didn't end well... She's seeing the doctor in a couple of hours so im waiting for updates
2 years ago • Post starter
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