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If my AF isn't properly here by Friday I'll test again I think. I had a 17 day luteal phase last month. Longest ever but could possibly be the same this cycle. Which would make my AF not due until Friday Just don't want to waste opks too
early!

I'm clutching at straws here (and usually means the next day will be full AF flow as I jinx it!), but does anyone think this MIGHT/COULD be implantation bleeding?!?! Is it too late for implantation bleeding. Only brown light pink so far. I'm 12DPO. xxx

You can implant as late at 12dpo! Or even later in some odd cases. I got my fingers crossed for you scuba!

Jan you arent out until af shows!!

I'm at the end of the 11dpo and still no cramps... I usually cramp the whole week before my period....so that's my only odd thing. Just gonna wait till Wednesday and see if af shows up

so I had no warning this time for AF. Except nipples soreness which is also an early pregnancy symptoms. Cervix was still soft with creamy cm. And with somewhat high temps. So the witch is here. I actually ovulated 2days before I thought that I did but somehow I got the elevated "confirm" temps only 2days later. I am just saying this because temps are not as reliable about ovulation that we seem to think. I ovulated at CD 29. Crazy Hashimoto and PCOS issues . But per usual, I stay reconfirmed that only God gives children. You can do and prep for everything and if it is not your time, then it is not period. Next cycles, I am planning to temp a bit again and definitely used my clear digital pink opks tests. Keep up the Faith.

Agatch I hope you're right! But we will see... it's my first month with my 'normal ovulation day' so I'll just be happy to be back on track

@babytears it seems like you might only be ovulating now did you take an opk?

@pandorica I would hold out a couple of days and test again to be sure your lines darken but I'd bd as well to be sure if I did ovulate late to catch that as well... LH also actually rises before your period which could also cause the positive opks

@agatch I'm sorry you got a negative babe but I'm sure your positive will soon be here especially if you are cramping

@jan maybe your hcg just rises slow because if the spotting you have is implantation it might still be a couple of days before it shows on a test

@espence your will power to not test is amazing I take my hat off for you... Currently I'm just running on it's too early to show and I dont know why but I feel like if I test early I might jinx myself and not be pregnant but that's how i feel lol

@lalou I'm sorry AF came babe I hope next month is your month

@scuba it's totally possible that you're having implantation I have my fingers crossed

Anna you are always so good about including everyone!
The urge to test may hit tomorrow and I'll be running to the store.

@espence lol I actually decided against it to buy some tests like I want to hold out as long as I can and not waste any money on tests just to have negatives so we'll see how that goes...

So I haven't baby danced in 3 days going on day 4 (I'm cd19 today) so right now I'm hoping I ovulated around cd13 to cd16 and I caught my egg... Last night when we turned off the TV and went to bed SO was like i thought we're having sex tonight but he didnt do anything to instigate it and when I called him out for it he said it takes two of us to do it... It's fair but I'm just not feeling like having sex lately I'm at a stage in my cycle where I feel like if it doesnt happen that's cool and we'll just move on to next month but if it does happen I'll be over the moon eventhough we havent baby danced nearly enough to my liking... I'm just so tired like really really tired that my sex drive is taking a hit and I'm usually the one that gets on top of SO to start things but lately I'm just like if he doesnt start anything then I get a free pass for a night lol...

Also my due date would have been tomorrow so I dont kmow if that's taking a toll on things as well...

So I definitely ovulated... Checked my CP now just to be sure and its sealed up tight not open at all anymore and it's really hard so ovulation has passed... Honestly its the earliest its even gone back to "normal" which is odd. As for cm outside im still pretty dry which isn't usual for me but when I checked my CP now there was A TON of cm on the inside it's milky creamy and stringy super strange... I also feel very annoyed in my lower abdomen almost as if you've been standing the entire day and its getting tired something like that I dunno how to explain it

Scuba Fingers crossed it was indeed IB

Espence You’re a hero on waiting this long! I really hope you get two pink fat lines as soon as you dip the dest on Wednesday

Lalou I’m so sorry AF showed! I really hope you get your bfp next cycle!

Anna I think all this scheduled BDing sometimes make us consider it like an obligation which is not good at all and I sometimes feel the same way as you are. Especially when I know I ovulated my mind is so focused on to reading my body’s signals where I don’t want to do anything else. Just sit all day and pay attention lol

AFM: 12DPO today and just used my last hpt. It was Negative I don’t have any left but even if I had is a lost game. I’m expecting AF to show tomorrow or Wednesday. Temps are same as yesterday but this doesn’t say much! I’m a bit sad, I cannot hide it but I did my best and idk what else to do.. Let’s hope next month will be a lucky one.