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Anna you are always so good about including everyone!
The urge to test may hit tomorrow and I'll be running to the store.

@espence lol I actually decided against it to buy some tests like I want to hold out as long as I can and not waste any money on tests just to have negatives so we'll see how that goes...

So I haven't baby danced in 3 days going on day 4 (I'm cd19 today) so right now I'm hoping I ovulated around cd13 to cd16 and I caught my egg... Last night when we turned off the TV and went to bed SO was like i thought we're having sex tonight but he didnt do anything to instigate it and when I called him out for it he said it takes two of us to do it... It's fair but I'm just not feeling like having sex lately I'm at a stage in my cycle where I feel like if it doesnt happen that's cool and we'll just move on to next month but if it does happen I'll be over the moon eventhough we havent baby danced nearly enough to my liking... I'm just so tired like really really tired that my sex drive is taking a hit and I'm usually the one that gets on top of SO to start things but lately I'm just like if he doesnt start anything then I get a free pass for a night lol...

Also my due date would have been tomorrow so I dont kmow if that's taking a toll on things as well...

So I definitely ovulated... Checked my CP now just to be sure and its sealed up tight not open at all anymore and it's really hard so ovulation has passed... Honestly its the earliest its even gone back to "normal" which is odd. As for cm outside im still pretty dry which isn't usual for me but when I checked my CP now there was A TON of cm on the inside it's milky creamy and stringy super strange... I also feel very annoyed in my lower abdomen almost as if you've been standing the entire day and its getting tired something like that I dunno how to explain it

Scuba Fingers crossed it was indeed IB

Espence You’re a hero on waiting this long! I really hope you get two pink fat lines as soon as you dip the dest on Wednesday

Lalou I’m so sorry AF showed! I really hope you get your bfp next cycle!

Anna I think all this scheduled BDing sometimes make us consider it like an obligation which is not good at all and I sometimes feel the same way as you are. Especially when I know I ovulated my mind is so focused on to reading my body’s signals where I don’t want to do anything else. Just sit all day and pay attention lol

AFM: 12DPO today and just used my last hpt. It was Negative I don’t have any left but even if I had is a lost game. I’m expecting AF to show tomorrow or Wednesday. Temps are same as yesterday but this doesn’t say much! I’m a bit sad, I cannot hide it but I did my best and idk what else to do.. Let’s hope next month will be a lucky one.

@anna sending you lots of love today
@lalou I'm sorry AF showed
@alex damn that sucks!
@espence eeeek! You are doing so well holding out to test! Can't wait for your update!

As for me, another slight drop. No bleeding overnight. Only getting a pink tinge when I check my cervix which is low firm and slightly open. Not that I understand whether this is a good or bad position Perhaps I'll just spot like this until Friday But the later it officially starts, the better the dates for my minimoon! So that's a good thing! xxx

Decided to ignore my temps when I was the sickest last Friday and Saturday incase it was affecting my chart, as I definitely had a temperature from my flu. Data looks a bit more stable now. xx

@alex yeah so I just didn't feel it anymore but fingers crossed for the next week like plant baby plant lol...

@scuba thanks babe I appreciate it and I'm glad your temps went back to normal.

@ItsAnna - We did bd the first two days of positive OPKs and now my husband is out of town until friday. I have tested with OPKs before af other cycles, and always end up with faint lines. So it would be a first if that's what they are reacting too.

Day 5 with strong/positive OPKs..

@pandorica definitely take a test then girl