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hello ladies, I'm going to try to jump in again. I'm either 5DPO or 7DPO. I had a IUI w/ donor. I wasted the majority of my trigger shot so that's why I'm not exactly sure of the DPO. I have no symptoms besides the normal mild cramps and fatigue from the progesterone suppositories that I'm on but that's it. Good luck everyone that's still in!

Good luck @mommy
So I've decided I'm pleased all my tests have been negative so far as my hubby has bought me an assortment of drugs for my flu. Night nurse and a tickly cough syrup. All which you can't take when pregnant. I'm literally just hoping to feel better and don't even think I'll be upset with a bfn this cycle now. I just want to wake up not be ill! xx

@lalou thanks it nice to know I'm not alone

@photomama I am so sorry. You can’t blame yourself though. You said you were doing everything you could and even though we, as women, have a big role to play it takes 2 people to make a baby + some luck or good karma or god’s will (whichever one of these things you know in your heart is the guiding force). I know how much harder it often is to be kind and compassionate to yourself but you deserve as much (and even much more) kindness and compassion than anyone else involved in your TTC journey because i’m sure it’s been affecting you the most. Thinking of you.

@jan that line you had on freer was faint but pink. Not so surprised the OB test was negative though , they usually don’t use super sensitive tests. Have you heard from the blood test? Hope you get well soon and get a BFP this cycle.

@scuba feel better!

I’m still in waiting mode and I usually try not to symptom spot any more but tonight I feel as if AF was a couple of hours away: pretty bad cramping, headache, backache, really tired and blah. But I am only on CD 21 and my shortest cycles were never less than 27 days so not sure what’s going on

Got AF 3/4 days early today... Hoping this cycle I can make it in the late October group now! Frustrated but looking forward now!

So my blood test was negative. Beta <5. The only thing I keep thinking is I just started having brown/pink spotting yesterday and today. Which could be implantation which could mean it’s too soon for even a blood test. I know that’s silly and I’m most likely out this cycle. I just feel so damn pregnant. The nausea for the past 4 mornings and fatigue has just been the worst. But I guess some of that could be to blame on the UTI? I’m just gonna hold out hope until I actually get AF. Probably stupid but oh well. I’ve read too many forum posts where women got BFPs after early negative blood tests to give up now.

Thanks for all your well wishes!

@mamacj

@lalou yay for temp going up!

@photomama sorry hun.

I tested with fmu today and hardly see anything. In 3 minutes I think there's a second line. It's lighter than yesterday, which was already barely there, so I think that's a bad evap line. DH is being very optimistic right now. Testing again tomorrow morning. Can't do this for another month. I feel defeated. You girls are so strong.

Hello ladies,

Sorry for being mia. We have been deep cleaning all day. We are expecting both set of grandparents this weekend and had to clean the place. Also i have been experiencing all of agatch symptoms and im less convinced about being pregnant. I am trying to keep my faith in the fact that I believe that if it is not this cycle, then it is not time yet. I completely understand being heartbroken though because i experienced it too. Only other i have my for everyone. Will trying answering to everyone in details tomorrow. Stay strong.

@photomama - Oh, that sucks! Sorry hun, know exactly how it feels.

As for me, I'm starting to think I actually didn't ovulate after that first positive opk. I'm guessing my body failed and are now trying again. This is the 3rd day with positive opk now and my cm turned eggwhite and are feeling a bit crampy. So I guess those hpt's where either evaps or something else. So I guess that means I'm gonna have to start that TWW count over. Ugh, why did I decide to skip bbt this month?!

Morning ladies how's everyone doing? I promise I read all of the comments but there's so much to reply on it's not even funny

Just an update from my side... Still no CM today I completely dried up which is super weird but I kind of think that it means I did ovulate so I should actually be 4dpo which is exciting... I'm still cramping every now and again making the urge to test even worse lol