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That cracks me up! I think I will try to switch to a bigger cup next time. I just tried using one of my tiny Tupperwares that I have never used once since we got married lol.
@momma I can't wait to see your test Friday since I told myself I won't start testing for real until Monday

I think I’m going to test with FMU tomorrow morning. It will be my last FRER. If I dont get a bfp, I’m not buying anymore tests unless AF doesn’t show by the end of the weekend. I’m getting very discouraged seeing the negative tests with all the symptoms and cramping I’ve been having.

12 DPO- idk if this is darker! Ahhh I’m driving myself crazy.

Ok so I put this together. This is 10, 11, and 12 DPO, FMU all taken at 3-4 minutes. (10 on top, 12 on bottom) What do you ladies think of this line progression? Is it enough? I have had a chemical before so I’m pretty paranoid

@AMF they are getting darker and will get darker with each dpo. I couldnt really see 10dpos line but 11 and 12 I see it and they are darker.

As for me, I guess my body has decided to o late again. With getting a fertility massage I thought it would help bring it back to its normal day of CD 15. I know the normal range is CD11-21, but that means I'll have a longer cycle again and puts me at waiting even longer. It's not my norm and I'm not sure sure why the last two cycles I have spotting for 3 or 4 days before ovulation. I'm afraid I wont be getting in any more BDing due to the SO and I started off all confident in this cycle. I havent been listening to my mediation/hynoise for like 4 or 5 days now. I had a very vivid dream where I was old and Grey and alone, like my SO left me and I was still childless. I'm feeling down and I cant stop the tears the last 2 days or feeling like I will never be a mom. I just wish it was easier for me as it was for my sisters and my
mom. They didnt have any issues getting pregnant, actually none of their kids were planned. I hate that I have to do so much to even conceive. :

This has been nice to read through. Really hoping to see some more bfps. I'm invested now lol.
I'm all the way over in New Zealand. Hubby and I have been ttc for 13 cycles. I'm 29 and he is 42. I had an early mc earlier this month which was really disheartening, I would have been due early Sep 2019. I'm now CD15 and got a pos opk yesterday. My ovaries are so sore i'm sure I’m ovulating right now so i'll class tomorrow as 1DPO. I'm surprised by how fertile I feel. I'm feeling O pain on both sides which has never happened. I am taking vitex for the first time and also raspberry leaf tea as of today until I get a bfp. I'm trying not to be a nutcase but all I can think about at the moment is bfps and getting one, at the same time that makes me nervous as I am not sure I can take another let down tbh. I really don't want to test too early this time but I suck at controlling my testing habits! Good luck everyone.

@AMF that is really good line progression!!
@bug sorry you had such a crappy dream. Not a good way to wake up and start the day. I’m kind of in the same boat today.
@Mat welcome! Awesome being in the TWW!

As for me... negative test again today. I’m sure AF is going to show Friday or there abouts. I’m seeing all of my usual signs. As far as my symptoms for the last week, I must have just had a high progesterone LP this time. I’m guessing once AF hits, I won’t be able to express milk anymore.

@momma I'm sorry your feeling like I am and i do hope she doesnt show.

@mat welcome to crew. Good luck this cycle.

@AMF my first three days of testing looked the same, dont give up and keep testing! Easier said then done right? I felt the same during the beginning testing. It's all dependent upon how much hcg has accumulated. You can always ask your OB to do a blood test and see what your beta is. I think that is what helped reassure me.

@bug I'm so sorry love Dont give up hope. I am deeply sadden for others ttc and being discouraged. Maybe take a break and wait for next cycle so your not stressing yourself out with all of this. Hugs to you

@matarikigreen welcome! Excited for you to join us all