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@ confuzed I wanted the gender to be a surprise but my SO wanted to know so we found out. We are having a little girl:)

Lol @confused my husband annoyed me before I was pregnant, it’s just worst now
And yes we def want to find out. I originally wanted to do a gender reveal, so my husband wants to do a rocket launch with the parachute being the color of what the baby is, but 1. K don’t want to wait till the next rocket launch in April to find out, and 2. I don’t want him spending money that we should be saving for the baby. So I think I’m just going to not tell the ultrasound tech on purpose we want it kept a secret so she blurts it out lmao. I’m bad, but if I tell him I don’t want to do the launch then that will just be a little argument I don’t want to get into. Plus, he wants everyone to go out to The middle of no where 2 hours away for the launch with all his rocket friends, I don’t want people to miss it because they don’t want to go hours away.

I feel like I’m having a girl. I have girl dreams all the time. With my boys I had boy dreams. Plus, I dreamt my friend, who is due a couple days before me, is having a boy and she is!

I love all those gender reveals but unfort a promise is a promise. I have no instinct about what I'm having this time around and names I have no clue which is driving me nuts cause I'm a bit of a control freak and like to be organised for any situation... gender neutral clothing I feel is daunting and nothing is really nice.

I am currently 9w 4d so in a few days we will have the Harmony test or the Non invasive screening test which tests for the abnormalities but also tests gender and is accurate to 98% so we could know as early as 12 weeks which is exciting!

I got anxious about gender today and was looking at the sneak peek home test.... but my husband shut me down on it lol. It is what it is and knowing earlier qomt change anything. I think I'm just wanting more info.... like I want to be more pregnant lol
I want to know who they are going to be, I want a bump not just bloat! I want to start buying nursery things but it's still a little early. I'm just really excited and knowing if it's a girl or boy would just be even more exciting!

is the harmony test compulsory? I didn't have one done.

Ladies, found out today we’re having TWINS!!! the really fast doubling time made me think it could be, when I first found out. Both babies measuring perfectly, even ahead. Hoping to see heartbeats next week at 6 week ultrasound. Wow I feel beyond blessed! Husband and family are thrilled. My husband is an identical twin and always wanted twins of his own. I was so shocked when the doctor told me today! I filmed a video on my iPhone but hands were shaking haha! My 2.5 year old daughter kept telling me “No Mommy, there’s two babies in your belly!” Well she was right!

holy moly, congrats photomama! That's amazing, so happy for you and your husband.

Thanks Confuzed! How many weeks are you? Are the symptoms starting to go away yet?