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Today was a horrible day for me 
I found out today that we lost our little peanut our little one stopped growing at 8weeks 2 days and no longer had a heartbeat. It’s been a rough day! The doctor gave me 3 options, 1 option is to wait it out and let my body take care of it naturally or option 2 was to get some medication to jump start the process, or option 3 is to go in for a d&c. I’ve always had a natural miscarriage and never had to choose anything my body did it on its own but since this was a missed miscarriage I’m wondering if I need to have the d&c and other mommies gone thru a d&c or have any advice?!
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Im sorry for your loss. I have had three miscarriages. One of which I did have d&c. The d&c was easier for me in the physical sense. The bleeding was very minimal and I didn't have too much pain. Emotionally it was harder for me because I didn't haveuch time to process what was going on and I was 14 weeks so I wanted to see my baby's face which I obviously didn't. I don't really regret it because I was hanging on by a thread and it was probably best for me. There is no right or wrong answer, just what you can handle.
5 years ago
Thanks everyone. Nothing is easy for me right now. It’s not my first miscarriage I’ve been thru it before but it’s so different this time. My others I didn’t get to see my little bean and it’s tiny little heartbeat. It’s so hard knowing that I’m still carrying around what could have been my little baby and knowing he/she is no longer with us.
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