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Pregnancy test calculator
Use this calculator to help you decide when to take your first home pregnancy test.
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Guys I think I'm on cd1 today... Absolutely heartbroken... I took it better the previous months than I did this month... Just feel like crawling up in a ball and crying... On to August TWW I guess... Hopefully that'll shine some light on me... Good luck to everyone on this group my heart goes out to you guys and I hope you get your bfps I need some positives here ladies !!
5 years ago • Post starter
@confuzed I just dont know what to do anymore I tried opks, I tried primrose oil, I tried pregnacare conception, even meditation and massages... I scaled down on the amount of coffee I drink and still it didnt work... Hell I dont even know if I ovulated this month seeing as my opks never got darker than a close positive before going down to negative again and if I have a 27 day cycle I should have picked ovulation up because it should have been anywhere from beginning of using opks to ending of using them... So I dont know what I'm doing wrong
5 years ago • Post starter
Hey ladies, I am only on here for support since I need to wait another Cycle before we try again. I wanted to tell you my experience so you guys have an Idea what I experienced. On Oct 19th I was supposed to get AF however never showed and was having all kinds of pregnancy symptoms, from nausea to lower back pain to dizziness and sore boobs. So decided it was time to test and low and behold I got a BFP on Fer. Saturday I decided I would test again just to make sure and sure enough was still there and a bit darker. Sunday we had plans to do a fall photo shoot. I decided that was when I was going to tell my Husband, He was so happy and so was I was just so magical. Monday We decided we where only going to tell a few friends and we where going to wait till Christmas to tell family (glad we did)
So for some reason I had the feeling something was going on that wasn't right so I kept testing. Plus I like to pee on things LOL. Well the test was getting lighter and lighter as days passed. wasn't sure if it was because my pee was Diluted or not (found out it wasn't) Come Sunday I went out with my mom and Decided in secret I was going to tell her we where expecting. she was elated with joy. That afternoon I felt a weird twinge in my stomach on left and right side, almost like contractions. I went home and was spotting. There was no pain associated with the light twinges I thought it was just my muscles. So never thought anything of it. Monday morning I was still spotting and decided I was going to go to work, 3 hours later I was bleeding full force with clots. I went to the hospital and sure enough I was miscarrying. It sucks but husband and I are not giving up. Just those words that will haunt me forever, your pregnancy is terminated. ... trying not to cry today since I am back to work but very hard, We will get our second baby hopefully.
5 years ago
@itsanna I'm sooo sorry How could this happen. I was so sure you did everything right!! I'm so frustrated for you. You're absolutely allowed to have a good cry and become a hermit for a while if you need to. Do what you need to do. You mentioned you get to see your OB right? Hopefully you can get some answers soon. *Hugs*
5 years ago
@muffin this is heartbreaking. Im so sorry for your loss. I applaud your attitude. That baby is now your little angel for sure.
@confuzed i have just been really busy with baby and halloween and planning a trip.
@itsAna you are my African sister. I am from Cameroon but I now live in the States. Anyway, i feel really sad for you as well. I was sure it was your month. Cry, drink some wine or something then get back at it.
I am praying for all of us to get our holidays babies.
5 years ago
Well guys I decided this month will be my "unhealthy" month... I had a bad habit of smoking and I did stop but I'm gonna have a few smokes, have some wine and not track anything this month... I need a break and wlli get back at it next month... Good luck to everyone else though !!
5 years ago • Post starter
Early pregnancy symptoms by day past ovulation
What signs and symptoms are most common on each day past ovulation?
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