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hey yep im in the same boat we r on 17 months also we have been to a FS fiance has a low count of 7 mil and 60 percent motility so i know how u feel its soooo frustraing to see nothing but bfn month after month thankfully tho we go see our FS again in oct since we most likely wont be pregnant by then and im hoping he steps in and tries an iui i always try to say im done trying but it starts all over with when am i going to ovulate how many dpo am i now its awful u cant or at least i just cant stop thinkin bout it like some other women its on my mind 24/7 and exp with knowing we have a problem but for some reason he says i cant see why thats not getting you pregnant like realy hes only got 7 million where a reg guy has 20 million or more i think ic the friggin problem so ya sux u gota wait till nov tho probably going to seem like a long wait anyway thats my story lol sorry for the novel

I am cd2, yet again. Have not been trying as long as you ladies have but still just want a positive already, each bfn takes an emotional toll on me. Baby dust to all!

Hugs to you! We are on cycle 9 and dh's sa just came back with zero sperm! Zero! Not even temping any more.

Man I so know how you feel! We've been trying since sept of 11 only to find out I have PCOS and hypothyroidism and do not ovulate. I have to wait until May to get diagnosed now I have to wait like you until oct/nov to call my doc to see IF she will prescribe me clomid. The medcine I am on does not seem to be working. Somestime the saddness and frustration are so overwhelming I just don't know how to handle it :( Like the other poster said though that what if creeps back in and I start all over again looking for O signs and trying to bd when I think its a good time to do so. I don't know how to overcome the saddness either and there is ALWAYS a small bit of saddness with me everyday knowing that I am NOT pregnant and probably WON'T be for a really long time :( I'll be with you on that wait until Nov so feel free to message me to rant and rave whenever you like!!!! We can whine together :)

Thank you so much, ladies! It makes me feel better to know I'm not alone! When everyone around me is having baby #2 or #3, and people I know are getting pregnant by surprise, it's been hard not to feel like I'm broken or less of a woman somehow. Thank you for reminding me I'm NOT the only woman going through this. We're in this together! Hugs and baby dust to all!