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Oh my you sound like me!!! The same thing everyone around me is preggo most with oppsies or one night stands some just decide I'm ready and a month later there they are 6 weeks along. It's all bullshit!!!! My husband and I have custody of his 7 year old twins as well. There biological could really care less as long as shes got her liquor. So here I am desperately longing for my own flesh and blood not that I don't completely love his kids and treat them as my own BUT I so know where you are coming from. I have been trying since sept and I haven't even gotten a period or ovulated (until recently possibly) since dec! I don't think my hubby understands either. He has his blood in front of them and I do take very good care of them but they are not my blood and it is a small difference when I desperately want to know what its like to hold them for the first time or hear their first words. Hell you can vent to me anytime!!! I'm good at making others see the positive in things!

So message me anytime to vent :) sorry I ran out of room just wanted you to know I know EXACTLY how you feel!!! Best of luck hope you get a BFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFP very soon :)

I feel the same way and I'm only on my 8th month. I just want to get to the 1 year mark so the doctors will care at least a little bit. I'm sure you're as tired as I am with people telling you "just relax, it will happen"... but then it doesn't. It's a lot of pressure. And I really don't think they understand at all. Just know you aren't alone and good luck!

I know exactly how you feel ... After trying for a year I thought if I look for medical care I would have the answer I was waiting for. Unfortunately I was wrong. We did all exams and everything came out normal and the only person who I thought was able to resolve my problem was unable to say what was wrong with us.. With normal results I decided to give me more time and try again.. So, I got pregnant 2 months late and it ended in a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks.. When I thought my battle and my fears had ended I just saw myself loosing the most precious thing I ever had.. It is very difficult stay positive after all, it is very difficult think that one day I will have this baby in my arms.. I don't know why we have to go through it but I believe in God Mercy and I believe in his time... He showed me that being pregnant is possible and I will never let the thoughts of giving up knock me down.. I know it is really hard see friends becoming preg but if you really believe in God Mercy

continuation--->>> Soon or later he will bless you with a baby.. God has his time and things never happen in our time... I hope you can find enough strength in God arms.. Have faith and believe God is love and he will answer your prayers if you ask him... Don't give up :) I wish you strength and you not the only in this difficult and painful journey.. God bless you :) I say it everyday when I pray: " "O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fount of Mercy for us, I trust in You." (Mary Faustina Kowalska)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divine_Mercy ( that is the only thing that gives me enough strength to keep going) God bless you..

I am so sorry you are feeling this way right now and I know nothingvI can say will make you feel better:( I do know several people who have been in the exact predicament and as soon as they stopped trying it happened. A couple of them had completely given up and were no longer thinking they would ever have a child. I dint know why or how this happens but I know it does. It may feel like it will never happen but it will! You also are on the younger side which is a benefit. Vent away..we understand! One day you will be holding your baby and all of this will be of no consequence!

hey i feel exactly the same my finace and i have been ttc for just over a yr 3 months ago my sister in law found out shes pregnant and didnt want it just yesterday my sister sends a pic of first response does this look positive and plain as day sec line ...we have been to see a fertilty doc we just had all our tests done just waiting to see him in 2 weeks but i still feel like quiting its to much of an emoitional rollercoaster and now with my sister newly pregnant that realy ticked me off and i seem to just not care anymore ...if the doctor has bad news iuno if we will continue with treatment or just say forget it all together becuse i just cant hadnle the neg hpt tests months after months.