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Thedjinn- sorry to hear you're out too :(
Let's keep at it this month too.. start temping NOW!
I'm CD3... so far my period's been on the milder side... I had only 1 heavy day where lately I was getting 2! Lots of cramps though ughhh!
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So sorry ladies!!

I am fighting the urge to start testing. I am starting to feel out don't think this will be our month either. Think I might give it a rest. After 3 months I'm starting to feel stressed about it. So glad it just happened with our first this is to stressful! I will pray you all get the outcome you want!

Well the plus side of being out this month, not another Nov Bday to add to the little in my family lol
miracle80 yes lets keep temping, maybe we will know when it happens!
Comeonbaby! you are not out till the AF shows, don't give up yet! But yes it is super stressful, I tell myself this is another month to do things for me, keep working out and weight training, splurge on dates with my husband, go on rides with my kids. I can't wait to get pregnant, but I can't speed it up, just means I need to enjoy the things I wont be able to do while I am pregnant!

Thedjinn- I couldn't agree more! I can't wait to be pregnant again but the fact that I'm not just means I need to enjoy my daughter and my life as it is now! Which is perfectly fine too!

Comeonbaby- hang in there!! Hopefully you won't get AF! Keep us posted... and if you test don't be discouraged if it's bfn... it may be early.

I'm finishing up on my period now and here come the days for counting down on ovulation day...

Well I think AF is about to show. I've had a really bad headache today and some spotting. I think after 19 cycles it's going to be time for me and DH to have a talk about seeing a specialist

dirtybirdsoaps I really hope AF doesn't show up for you! I hope this cycle is your cycle! But if not I hope a doctor can help you and your husband!

Dirtybirdsoaps- awww so sorry to hear! However until you get full blown AF, you still never know. You had said that you'll be amazed if you conceived this time as you guys only dtd once...
however, after 19cycles, I do agree with you that maybe you need to go see a specialist. I have a friend who took 2 years for her first and when she tried for the second, the first month and now again trying for the 3rd and again took on the first try. Such an inspiration and so much hope!! Right?

AF is here, and with a vengeance. Had my breakdown already today and will probably have "the talk" with DH tonight. On to cycle 20!

So sorry DBS

I'm 9dpo I am trying so hard to not test. Temp is still 98 still not "feeling" pregnant. On the plus side seems DH has completely come around and 100% is happy with trying. (He initially wanted to wait tell next winter). I read an article that stated when you stress about this it creates hormones that inhibit you from getting pregnant or makes it harder. I am hoping with prayer and exercise I can calm down and relax a bit about it! I will test on Sunday (that's my wine night lol!). I'll let you know!!