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Oh honey I'm so sorry. I was in your position about 3 months ago. Total shock and heartbreak. I am soooo sorry you are going through this. Please feel free to message me anytime to talk or vent or ask questions or anything. Let yourself grieve and cry and be sad. Take care of yourself.

I am so sorry - it is very heartbreaking. It is ok to feel devastated. I wish I could give you words of comfort but I don't think they exist. All I can say is that it really sucks and I am so sorry.

I had a miscarriage at 8weeks in May of last year. After 10 years of ttc I felt so blessed and happy at first and then I had 6 weeks of waiting and bleeding. It was the worst time of my life. I tried for so long to not show how devistated I was but eventually fell into depression that I just now am trying to come out of. It's a horrible, horrible feeling. I know it's hard but just keep telling yourself that it really wasn't your fault and that your body knows better than you do. As devistated as I still am the truth is I would have been so much worse if I'd had to watch my baby suffer one ounce after birth. I send you all my well wishes and support during this time. Remember talking about it hurts, but it also helps.