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Reply by redshadoe0 » Apr. 25, 2012 6:18am

ARGH!!!! I think I'm on the way to ANOTHER chemical pregnancy... I got a positive hpt at 9 dpo, then a SUPER faint one at 10 dpo... then nothing at 11 or 12 dpo. I'm so angry... 3 losses in one year so far and it's only April. This is killing me.

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Reply by mela0054 » Apr. 25, 2012 12:58pm

Hello dreaded TTW. This is the worst because I have to go to my SIL's baby shower on Sunday! All while I over analyze my own body for the slightest little symptom.

Redshadoe0- That is a bummer. Hang in there!

Mrsbaurs- Good luck at the lady doc hopefully you can get some news that will get you closer to your BFP!

Dolphin1204- Your story is too funny! At least we can laugh at our trials and tribulations!

To everyone else-

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 25, 2012 4:04pm

hey redshadoe0, sorry to hear about your losses that cant be a easy thing to deal with, i know are dh's heart are in the right place when they say things like '' it will be our turn'' bt i jst keep thinking when ??

hi mela0054 i agree too it seems so unfair how other ppl fall pregnant so easy, i would be happy with 1
sometimes its hard to fight the jealousy thing, i have my nephews christening this wkend yet another family get together n no doubt i will be asked the usual ''when are you having a baby''
i know how u feel with the TWW i sometimes think im imagining symptoms


hey dolphin, glad to hear your appointment went well, at least you and your dh can find humour in the situation i can imagine it cant be easy for you at times u have been through so much, baby dust for u and very best of luck this month

hi angel20, it is easy to start obsessing over wanting to get pregnant i find some months easier than others and i jst hope one day i can get my bfp along with all the great women i have spoke to on here

hey lisa1981 sorry to hear about all your stress at work , that cnt be easy for u
glad to hear u enjoyed your mini vacation

hey mrsbaurs, how did your appointment go today??

sorry for this long post i will put my update on a separate post

babydust to everyone :)

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 25, 2012 4:15pm

hey

this month just seems to have flew buy
lisa1981, i didnt manage to get pre-seed for this cycle had so much going on this month feel like i have blinked and it has gone
i am 8 DPO
not sure if any of you have had this happen but between day 19 and 21 of my cycle (or between 5 DPO & 7 DPO) i have had blood spotting it has stopped since last night and tonight i have never had this between cycles not sure what it could mean so any advice would be appreciated
i dnt know wither to phone my doctor or not about this

a story that may make you all laugh, i keep corn snakes and recently i was keeping 2 of them together temporarily was told they were both male so thought it would b fine for a few wks, they had been separated about a month ago n well on Tuesday night i come home to my snake laying eggs i just though to myself come on even my pets are having babies before me bt it made me laugh n i will have something else to keep me busy in 8 wks time

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Reply by mela0054 » Apr. 26, 2012 2:35pm

wilsonc- Not to get your hopes up but it could be implantation bleeding!! You know the bleeding we all hope for at the first site of our AF. Anyway...I hope so!!!!


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Reply by redshadoe0 » Apr. 26, 2012 3:20pm

13 dpo and I'm totally gettin mixed signals from preggo tests. 10 miu ICs say yes, faintly... FRER has a SHADOW of a line... but nothing I can go waving around doing a happy dance! UGH! It's craziness. I don't understand. waiting 3 more days and giving up and taking a break before I lose my mind.

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 26, 2012 3:55pm

hi mela0054, thnx for the info :) dnt worry i try each month not to let my hopes build up i feel its not as big a let down if af shows (one of my little ways of coping), the earliest i would test would be a wk tomorrow if no af bt yea fingers crossed n thanks again


hey redshadoe0
i can imagine how mixed up u will be feeling getting faint lines etc, have u tried a digital test i always find them alot easier as it tells u yes or no, me personally i have only ever bought the line tests once i didnt like them tbh
hope u get a bfp, i know how u feel not long ago everything got to me and i felt like giving up all together

baby dust :)

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 26, 2012 4:15pm

redshadoe0 I would take a breath and stop testing for a bit. It could be a + but also a possible evap line. Try not to stress! How many DPO are you? I know it is hard and easy for me to say but think positive! Usually a + is a + no matter how faint it is. Make sure you tell your doctor about it so they have it on file incase they want to do further testing if things don't trun out the way you want them to.

I agree with mela0054, Wilson. It could be a geat sign! Keep us posted! As far as the snakes, I have always hated snakes and damn them for having babies!

Mrsbaurs how was the appt?

mela0054 good luck at the baby shower! I really have hated going to them for the past few years. I actually had to go to one during my ectopic last November.. It was pretty much torture! Positive thoughts and laughter will help your mind and body.

Lisa1981 no good about the job situation. I wish you peace and hope that things will go better for you! Our jobs are usually a huge part of our lives and it is a hard pill to swallow when that part of us is threatened. Which is not unlike the TTC journey.

AFM I have been taking the 2ww in stride and trying to not over think or stress. I am 7dpo and I am still testing + on HPTs from my trigger shot. I want to test every few days so I know if and when the HCG is out of my system. Then I know any + after a - will be a true +. Or if it doesn't go to a - and the +'s get stronger I will call for a blood test. Kinda crazy seeing the two lines. But it sucks knowing it doesn't mean I am actually pregnant!

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 26, 2012 5:13pm

hey dolphin1204, thnx i hope so bt will keep u posted im jst trying not to think abt it to much and see what happens in the next wk
i love my reptiles its a hobby bt i know they arent for everyone, i know they are trying to make me jealous lol

glad to hear you are taking your 2ww in your stride its no t always easy, it must be strange seeing the 2 lines, do they do the blood test to find out if you are pregnant rather than going by the tests if u dont get a - and the + gets stronger

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Reply by redshadoe0 » Apr. 26, 2012 7:45pm

I'm worried about wasting money on a digital test because they're often not as sensitive as the line tests. And I figure if I can barely get a line, the digi wont pick it up?? I'm 13 DPO today. We're fixin to head to Texas for the weekend for hub's birthday... so I should be able to relax and stop thinking about it so much.... hopefully. Thanks for the comments ladies! It means a lot, honestly. Hubs doesn't understand the frustration. On another note (TMI) I've been keeping track of my cervix, and today it rose super high up and it's kinda tryin hide up there. I hope thats a good sign since I think when the comes, your cervix is supposed to be super low and starting to open right? So we'll see!!! And the CM is increasing... so we'll see.

Good luck to ya'll!! Praying for 's all around!

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 28, 2012 5:54pm

hey redshadoe0, i know the digi ones are dear think coz i had some of the standard ones n didnt like them that much bt i have found a new one to try done some reading up on the net, first response test have supposed to be more sensitive compared to other tests i have bought a pack if af doesnt show by wednesday im going to test

i hope af doesnt show up for u this month and hope u and hubby enjoy ur little break together

baby dust :)

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Reply by redshadoe0 » Apr. 29, 2012 8:48pm

I started spotting today... just on tissue... a day before AF. I'm PRAYING it's just breakthru bleeding somehow. We'll see!

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Reply by dolphin1204 » Apr. 30, 2012 8:54am

Wilson I am sure if those snakes went to anyone elses home they would have been both males! I prefer my pets to be furry myself! But to each their own!

Keep us posted redshadoe0! We are thinking about ya!

AFM it was a typical weekend three more pregnancies announced to me and I was with my friend who is pregnant. But all in all it didn't really effect me that much which is great for a change! Still tested + on my hpt this AM. Trying to not speculate on it being real or not yet. I have tested every other day and they have always gotten lighter from test to test but the last two have been the same. We shall see!

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Reply by katiemay88 » Apr. 30, 2012 11:48am

Hi Everyone. I briefly read through a majority of the posts on here and hope you don't mind if I join :) Hubby and I started ttc in May of 2010 and trried until September 2010, but unfortunately I had to have surgery and my doc highly recommended I go back on the pill as getting pregnant after the surgery would be a bad idea. So after my follow ups came back good I came off the pill July 2011 and we have been trying since (on our 9th cycle).

It's been an incredibly hard journey. Almost all my friends have because pregnant and given birth in that time, or are currently pregnant. DH and I are both 23, I never imagined it would be this difficult.

We've started fertility testing. DH's sperm anaylsis came back great, which was was a relief, so onto me now. Been waiting for a call from a fertility specialist for about 3 weeks now :(

I'm anti-temp, I find it very stressful to have to think about ttc the moment I wake up every morning, so I only temped one month, but most definitely O'd. The rest of the cycles I have used opks, and have always gotten positives, except this last cycle :( Waiting for af to hopefully show on time now!? Could be anytime between now and Friday. My cycles are 28-32 days with a 13 day luteal phase.

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Reply by tiredofwaiting2013 » Apr. 30, 2012 1:44pm

Good afternoon Wonderful ladies :). How is everyone doing.
Wilson, don't worry about the pre-seed :), I understand by what you mean by the month just flew by. Same here (cant beleive I'll be a year older on sunday, already... urghhh). Maybe you wont need it this month. Hopefuly, this will be your month. You mentioned spotting.. is this un-usual for you?? if so.. could be a good sign, FX

mrsbaurs, sorry to hear about AF.. :(.

redshadoe0: Hang in there. Hopefuly, af will stay away.

dolphin, I just read... you got a positive hpt... omg.. I hope the little bean sticks. FX for you :)

As for me, well... still waiting to O so... can't say much, LOLL

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Reply by wilsonc » Apr. 30, 2012 7:01pm

hey redshadoe0, fingers crossed for u af doesnt show up then :) keep us posted

hey dolphin1204, yep most ppl i know prefer fluffy pets lol, yep jst bad luck but im looking on the plus side i will have something to keep me busy in 8 wks time :)

sounds like good news getting a + on your htm, hopefully good news for u :)

welcome katiemay88
i know how you feel i never imagined it would be this hard a journey either
thats gd abt your dh's results and hope u hear back from the specialist soon maybe worth giving them a call for a update for an appointment
baby dust :)

Lisa1981, i knw feel like this year has flew in so far, hopefully it is bt if not always next month to try again, the spotting isnt something i have had before

baby dust to all :)

afm i am on day 28 of my cycle so its a waiting game now & i dnt want to test until friday if i can help it got my tests waiting just incase i want to test before then





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Reply by redshadoe0 » May. 1, 2012 6:42am

got me... Assuming it was another chemical pregnancy since I got a few faint positives at home. Makes 3 losses this year so far (AND ITS ONLY MAY!!!!!) my loves.
So on to the next cycle! I think we'll try preseed this time, but I'm totally not sure when I'll ovulate because I don't have any more clomid (in the middle of switching doctors to an infertility specialist at the end of May). So this cycle will be totally crossing my fingers on every aspect!!!
I'm sorry I'm not keeping up with everyone else and where ya'll are in your cycle... I think I may need to go to my primary doc about some depression meds (this trying for 2 years and 3 losses is starting to get to me) I'll try and do better!!! I saw someone got their !!! !!!! !!!!! To the rest of you, I sincerely wish you good luck in the coming cycle!

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Me: 27 PCOS DH: 25 Fine and dandy
November 2011 First round of 50mg Clomid.
December 22 !!!
January 1 2012 m/c @7 weeks
- Clomid 50mg round #2 Feb 2012.
21 day progesterone level at a 3
!!! Another m/c at 5 weeks
- Clomid 100mg April - June epic fail
- July Femara/Ovidril It worked!!!
- Sept - .... lost a genetically healthy baby boy

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Reply by katiemay88 » May. 1, 2012 7:49am

Thanks wilson :) I'm on cd 30 right now. Never got a positive opk this month so not sure when af will show. Should be by Friday at the latest though. I'm officially not testing anymore until af is late. I bought a clear blue digital for when that day comes so I'll no for sure and there will be no guess work. How long are your cycles usually?

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Reply by mrsbaurs » May. 1, 2012 8:01am

Hey girls! Hope all is well.

I am CD 10 right now, so just waiting to O. It seems like all I am ever doing is waiting. Waiting to O, waiting on BFP or waiting on AF.

I go to the doc tomorrow for my yearly exam and I am going to talk to her about some things. I will let you know how things go!

Sorry AF got you red.

Keep us posted dolphin.


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Reply by dolphin1204 » May. 1, 2012 9:18am

Just a heads up I have not gotten TRUE + HPT yet. I had a trigger shot of HCG so it has showed a + on HPTS since the day I took it (Apr 18). My HPTS have gotten lighter each day so the shot is slowly going out of my system. I will know more by the end of the week or beginning of next. But as of now I would say I am NOT pregnant. I will keep you all posted though! I am on cycle day 25 right now.

mrsbaurs good luck with the waiting game! Sounds about like my life right now! Waiting for the HCG to get out of my system, waiting for the day that a + means a +... Thats my waiting game! Also good luck at the doc! Let us know how it goes!

Welcome katiemay88. Sorry to hear of your troubles but you are in the right place to recieve support! My cycles are usually 28 or 30. A few times a year they are 26.

Keep us posted Wilson. Have you talked about any other treatments with your doctors?

Lisa1981 good luck with O day!

redshadoe0 sorry to hear she came unwelcomed once again! I know what your going through I lost two in 4 months and it is a lot to go through in such a short period of time.




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