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I think the best place for you to start is with your ob/gyn. They need to take a look at your cycles/charting and start to get your periods back on track because if you're having anovulatory cycles, you can't get pregnant:( once they get you where you need to be then they can decide what is the best approach after that...good luck!!!

I'm sorry for your losses. I would recommend starting to understand your cycles through charting. The fertility friend website/app is great for charting but if I recall correctly also has a course where you will learn all of the fascinating things your body does through each cycle! You can use different methods of trying to pinpoint ovulation - I have been able to do so successfully in the past even with irregular and long cycles. Having charts in hand will be especially helpful if you proceed to see a doctor for assistance. You could also look at the Sperm Meets Egg Plan to optimize your BD timing. Hope this helps!