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You wouldn't be human if you weren't upset. Sounds like you are both struggling a bit emotionally at the moment at opposite ends of the spectrum which is causing a bit of a clash. If you didn't care about each other it wouldn't be such a big deal.
It can be so hard when someone is moaning about the difficulty of pregnancy when it's what you want more than anything. I had to go through an unwanted pregnancy with my niece and support her through a termination so I get where you are coming from but your friend has been supportive to you in the past. If her pregnancy was unplanned then she is bound to be an emotional wreck, add hormones and a horrible pregnancy into the mix and she might not realise that you still need to unload too.
Praying you get your bfp soon and can go through it together

Thank you! Seriously! By the time I was able to read your reply I had calmed down and wasn't feeling so selfish, and it really helped to see it from another person's point of view. Hoping I can continue to be supportive to her and avoid being bitter about anything. So thank you again! Good Luck to you too!

We all feel like that sometimes and its good to unload on here than letting it explode and effect your friendship. I'm glad you are feeling better (hormones are a hitch ), anytime you feel it building up we are all here to help.
Long term ttc really sucks when you want it so bad and it can feel like it is rubbed in our face when you see babies everywhere but it will happen. One day that will be you holding your baby and you will treasure every second of it. Hold onto that thought

I had a similar experience with my best friend. DH and I had been trying for nearly a year when she and her hubby went off the pill and 2 months later, bam. BFP for her. Then, we had DH tested and found out his sperm motility was at less than 1%. I didn't say anything to her until the texts started rolling in with her bitching about being pregnant. I just said "well at least you get the opportunity, we found out last night that it may never happen for us, so enjoy this." She got the message and never said anything again. DH and I are currently expecting twins in April after treatment of IVF with ICSI. Maybe get yourself and your hubby tested if you haven't yet to see if there are issues. And if there are, don't panic. The worst part about IVF is the price tag. The process itself isn't that bad. :-)