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My first IVF-- did not get to transfer
I am 401 1/2 and TTC my 1st child. I went through IVF and got 9 folicles... only 4 fertilized with ICSI, and none made it to blastocyst... i hadn't really prepared myself for not doing a transfer. i am trying to convince myself that it is better not to transfer any "underdeveloped embryos" then to have a miscarriage.... but i would like to know if going back for IVF #2 is the definition of insanity.... Anyone have success on #2?
4 Replies • 9 years ago
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I have tried 3 more times. 2nd time, did not make it to transfer. 3rd and 4tg time, made it to transfer but did not get pregnant. It is very emotional. I just finished a series of tests to see if I have rare hormones that do not allow attachment. The dr thinks my "oven" is ok, and to try again..... I haven't decided yet.... Sorry to hear that you didn't get to transfer. I hope it works out for you!!
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8 years ago • Post starter
Oh, LJ, that is heartbreaking. I am so sorry. Money is an issue, so I have been trying Femara IUIs this summer. Now have a cyst, so nothing this cycle. I have a new job and new insurance and there is a slight chance they will approve an IVF. I am sort of worn out of hoping. I just can't keep caring that much month after month.
8 years ago
I, too, just started a new job!
I started to investigate adoption. It is daunting. And can be $50K!
All of my tests came back normal.
I may try one more time, but after October. Bc of money and so much change with the job.....
I am so sad, to be honest. I want to be a mom so badly.
:-(
8 years ago • Post starter
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