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babybump89

11dpo BFN and very disheartened :(

I know it's still early, but I can't help being discouraged as I keep seeing BFN tests each month. We're in month 6 of TTC our first and I feel like I keep imagining symptoms. This month we've tried adding preseed, cutting out caffeine, walking daily, and BD every day as opposed to every other day. I am due for AF on Saturday (May 14) and I feel like that's close enough I should be able to at least see a faint line on a test..has anyone else been this close and gotten BFN but still been pregnant?

This past weekend I had mild cramps, breasts got tender but that has since lightened up, headaches on and off, gassy, and bloated. Other months I've thought my breasts hurt but AF was always right on time. I just want to hope I'm testing too early! I don't know much about charting temperature to figure out everything, I just used OPK to determine ovulation.

After 6 months of letdowns (and 8 years of not actively trying, but also not having any "mistakes") I'm worried theres a problem :(

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anneouel

Aww. I'm on month... let's see, wow 10... OK more then I thought.
Anyways Ito always tough and every time I get to 12dpo I give up.

You arnt out till af but it's hard to keep faith

I'm on 10 dpo and not even a shadow and ya I worry somethings wrong with me too, but I think everyone does.

Don't start getting upset and just make a plan. Like... if by 12 months go see a doctor.
Or get a check up so your doctor can give you a clean bill of preconceive health :)

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