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Been in the same boat. Been pretty nervous myself. At 11-12 dpo (different calculations different places) and I'm nervous. took a test yesterday but going to try again after I go to bed and get up in the morning. My cramps have all been at one side so im hoping it's good news. Best of luck to you and hope the nerves dont get to you too badly!

There are complex reasons that go into wanting a child that I think it manifests as a sense of urgency to conceive. I completely get how you feel. I was the same way when I was ttc my last baby. I fell pregnant on my sixth month of trying. My previous pregnancies had happened first go so I put a lot of pressure on myself. Every cycle I didn't conceive felt like a loss. I don't know how long you've been trying but hang in there your surprise will most likely come on a cycle you feel just didn't work! Lol. :). Trying to conceive can be intense and you'll find a lot of women here can relate.

@apowl2010 thank you for sharing your feelings and i wish you all the luck.

After a loss its been 8 months,thanks for you reply.