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Welcome Vannie! Fingers crossed!!
I really hope this is your cycle.

I was told clomid isn't an option for me, because I do ovulate, even though very late (cd30-35). I have scar tissue from my first c-sec, which would make me very high risk if I conceived multiples. So clomid is out of the running for me.

Doc theorized that I am having issues with implantation. This is my first cycle with a specialist, despite having tried for almost a year. So after this cycle, I will go back and we will discuss intervention options that we can try before we go the iui route.

9dpo today and the poas addict in me couldn't help but do it, of course, bfn.

Have a lovely weekend everyone.

Congrats to all ladies with bfp. I've actually put off ttc for some time. I wish you all the best. When I return I really hope to have the support and kindness that I've found here. I've realized that is not quite time for me due to other beautiful things blossoming. Baby dust to those who continue their ttc journey. And Happy Mothers Day to all. Kisses and hugs to everyone.

Happy Mother's Day to you all!

@Primadonna, so sorry dear. What caused the scar? Whatever options he will provide will be in your favour and you will carry your LO again.

I have been trying for 3 years now. I have a 4 year old daughter. I also believe this cycle is it for me. i wouldnt want to go through Clomid Cyles for more than 2 times.

This 2WW eh! God is helping me daily.I have had heart breaks being a POAS addict,so i'll just wait till a missed period.

For you, i know that BFN will become a BFP.
Take care dear

Hey girls,
sounds like we are all goin through it in one way or another! I think I'm around three days past o. Obviously no symptoms but first stop me looking!! it drives you insane this TWW doesn't it?! I know for a fact I didn't have any ewcm this month. Does anybody know if you can actually concieve without having it?

happy mothers day everyone :)

storm - we are always here for you!!!!

vannie - apparently my body just healed funny from the last c sec, theres no real reason as to why. but the doc says the sperms could be getting "lost" in the scar (its 3mm) and not making it to the egg. 3mm is a long distance for the small fellas.... hence suggesting the iui.

i am reading up all that i can now on IUI. i hope to try it after the summer.

sarxx - ive read through A TON of forums and honestly i know some women have said they NEVER EVER get ewcm. and they still conceive. i never really paid much attention until the last few months and i always find my ewcm is present before ovulation and not the day of.

im really hoping the bfn becomes a bfp but i think im just lying to myself.....

@sarxxs,Good to know, we are in this together.I never have much ewcm either. I had to bd with Preseed this time around. I am positive and hopeful

@primadonna, you have to be positive. You say it to see it. You are not lying to yourself. Just see it come to pass in this cycle. I wish you a BFP.
Still having symptoms? I am only having cramps and constipation

i have absolutely ZERO symptoms, its now 10dpo. i am going to stay positive and try hold out till 12dpo to poas again!!!!! THANKS vannie.

Good morning Primadonna, this week, we will celebrate your BFP.

Have a lovely week Mummies!

How is everyone doing?

I'm now 7dpo with no obvious symptoms.

I was at a friends son's first communion yesterday and another friend unexpectedly shoved her 11 week baby in my arms for a 'hold'. After my friends and their families saw this they all felt it was acceptable to ask/hound my DH and I why we hadn't started a family yet. Does anyone find this - as soon as you show an interest in others children they feel it's ok to quiz you. After a few hours of explaining that we were so busy just now blah blah blah and they still persisted with the questioning my DH told them we were infertile. I laughed so hard when their faces changed and they stopped with the questioning immediately (in fact the avoided us the rest of the afternoon). I've never felt so detached from a situation in my life and it just feels like it's never going to happen for us :-(

@Cocoabear,
My Fx for you in this cycle. In few days, we will all celebrate your BFP.
Stay Positive, its going to happen for you both.
Remember, God created your perfect and put the blessing on you and commanded you to be fruitful and have many children. This mandate will be fulfilled in your life. Just believe!