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Lost my hope!!ð???

My due cyle is 1st of September but I had spotting two days ago and now period! ð??? it's brownish and I have unusual cramps! Expecting to be concieved but! Huge disappointment! ð???
What is going on with my hormons! Had one miscarriage in April and since than TTC but my body haven't recovered yet! Sems like! ð???
As a 40 years old and one miscarriage! I feel like its difficult and I don't know if I'm going to be pregnant again! ð??¢ð??¢
I wished I had chance to TTC around my 30is.

7 Replies • 9 years ago


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Sorry you are feeling down. There is always hope. Last week I was down in the dumps after two of my best friends had announced their pregnancies. Wrong of me, I know but I had recently had an MC and I took it hard. Not my shining moment. However, after speaking to my bf and telling her that I was feeling down and out about my own fertility issues, she told me that her doctor had told her not to get false hope. 1 week later, she got her Bfp. This has given me hope. And btw, she is 41.

9 years ago


Thank for positive thoughts! I'm trying to be positive! But sometimes it's difficult! ð???
Friend of mine who had also miscarriage told me that my bleeding might be implantation bleeding but is it soppose to be only spotting ??
First day I had only pink light soppoting, second medium brown spotting and today having a heavy dark red bleeding!
I don't know I'm period or implantation bleeding!
Planing to go to doctor two morrow but at the same time thinking what are they going to say/do! It's a natural cause!!!

Thank u for sharing. Ur experience with me.

9 years ago • Post starter


I don't mean to be a Debbie downer, but it's probably not implantation bleeding. After several months of ttc, I've read a lot about implantation bleeding. First of all, it is rarely noticeable to most women. Second, it is not generally dark red or heavy like a period. After my first month, my bf told me the same thing and I really started to convince myself that it was implantation bleeding only to be disappointed later. Implantation occurs around 9dpo so figure out where you are in your cycle to determine if this is a possibility. Hope this helps! Our time is coming... Xxx

9 years ago


Went GP and done ptest too which negative!
Doctor said at least it's negative as I'm not having another miscarriage! Said added I'm having a early period as result of stress and my body is still recovering from miscarriage!
I relieved at least i know what happens!

Thank u for thought Stepmommy!

Good luck u as well

Hopefully we'll share us good news ð???ð???ð???

9 years ago • Post starter


Dont give up! I know its hard but be positive ..I go through the same thing but miracles happen everyday!

9 years ago


Thank u :)
I'm trying and I learnt that being a positive only can help me to go though this pain and TTC again! I'm on my 14dpo and planing to text this Sunday let see what hapens!
Good luck to u :))

9 years ago • Post starter


Hello I'm sorry for your miscarriage and subsequent disappointment. All I can say is look after yourself with a good diet with a balance of fruit, veg and good protein, do some exercise and also make time to do the things that make you happy and relaxed. I know how all consuming TTC can be and it can't be good for us. The turning point in my story was getting my thyroid checked... It was 4.5 and kept going up and down. I had a battle with various GP's to get referred to an endocrinologist, as they wanted to blame my age, weight, stress, etc for my failure to conceive. Thyroid levels (TSH) need to be around 2.0 for conception but getting GPs to recognise that can be difficult ( see my post on TSH levels ). My levels were all over the place but one lucky month they dipped to 2.0 all by themselves and I got my longed for BFP. I am now under specialist ante natal care and am on thyroxine. Baby due bonfire night. It's worth getting your thyroid checked. Best of luck to you x

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