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9 Days Past Expected Period, BFN

Hi Everyone,

I am new to this website, but I've want to say I obsessively read all these forum topics when I'm going insane, and it helps a girl out that for sure!

My husband and I have been TTC since October 2015. Since then, I've dabbled a bit in OPKs, Fertility Apps, and only recently have I started charted my BBT.

My cycles have been fairly regular averaging from 30-32 days. I can tell you that in the past year, my longest cycle was only 34 days. AF will undoubtedly show up 12-14 days after I've ovulated. But this month, AF was no where to been seen on her expected date (February 15th, 2015). Now its about 9 days past, and still no where in sight. Of course after missing my period, I've taken several tests (4 to be in total, 3 internet cheapies and 1 FRER) and all have show negative. The last time I tested was this past sunday (Feb 21) and it was still negative.

Unfortunately, last month my mother passed away, so I didn't keep up to actually knowing when I ovulated. I just assumed that I would roughly around when my calendar said i would, because well, I usually do! I didn't keep track of when we BDed either.

So here were my symptoms the last three weeks since I THINK i ovulated (January 31st).

In the TWW (Jan 31-Feb13)
- Cramps
- Shooting pains like someone is punching me in the V

Around Feb 13-15 (expected period start date)
- Sore nipples
- A lot of CM, thinking it was AF
- Nausea
- feeling full after two bites of food
- light headedness when I get up

Current symptoms
- nips are still sore not as bad though, it came, went and came again
- cm like af is coming
- feeling really hungry

I went to see the doctor this past monday and had a urine test there, which showed as negative. I ended up getting a requisition for a blood test, which I did yesterday and I am currently battling my office for the results. I don't have the courage to take another test to only get another BFN.

I guess I just want to know, Has anyone ever been in my shoes? And did you end up getting your period? Or even better, getting a BFP in the end?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you!

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