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13 DPO and BFN and light spotting, I feel so defeated

Hi everyone,

I always read and never post, but today I felt my heart fall out of my chest and I just want to vent. We haven't been actively TTC but decided that if it happens, then it happens. Secretely though, every month I was hoping that it happens. Thats been about a year now. This month, at around 9 DPO I noticed a cool burning sensation in my lower abdomen and some strong pulling/twinges. I thought that was really odd and then I realized I am supposed to be getting my period and I hadn't spotted. I usually spot 5-7 days before I get my period. So i got my hopes up.

This morning, I took a FRER test and it was negative but I thought hey, my period isnt supposed to start until tomorrow so there's still hope that it's taking it's time. Then I got the tiniest of brown in my discharge today, which Im sure means AF is coming. I dont know how to deal with the excitement of getting my hopes up and the depression of realizing I'm not pregnant. Blah. How do you guys deal??

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