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Hi Heather,
I'm sorry you have to post here. I'm new to this site, but I wanted to tell you that I've had many m/c's too. We still have no answers. If you need to vent you can message me
((Hugs))

Thank you so much. I just might do that !! Xoxo

i am in the process NOW of having my 3rd m/c ,...
everything was going good and i started having some bad pain and cramping ,, the sac was empty as well on me ... it took us 4 years to get our BFP after the first 2 .. i am in total shock right now and i feel so alone ,, no one really understands how this impact you unless they go threw it themselves !!! im not willing to listen to wise words right now i just wanna scream !!! it is a hard pill to swallow for me !!! i have a team of specialist that are really great .. i was advised to drink yogi red raspberry tea during the m/c and if im going to try again !!! which im not sure if i am going to or not ,, my heart is very heavy , trying to keep myself busy so i wont think about it , is really all i can do at this point !!!

I can completely relate to what you're going through. In fact even though physically I'm fine, emotionally I'm not. It is, like you said a hard pill to swallow. I swear if one more person asks me if we are doing to try again I'm going to punch them in the face. Right now I'm torn and don't know if I want to. I mean after four failed pregnancies I don't know if I can handle it again. This last one was by far the hardest. I was 12 weeks. I like you feel alone. Feel like no one understands. It's hard. I just starters antidepressants because I just can't get it together. I'm so sorry your going threw this. It's terrible cruel unfair, I could go on and on. If you need to vent I'm here. Xoxoxo

alot of ppl ask me if im going to try again , it adds fuel to the fire thats for sure ,,, one of the hardest things that gets to me is deep down i do want to try again but i have developed a fear of something that is supposed to be a happy time , when i saw that BFP i was scared to death,, i tried not to think about the 'worst' but i feel like im failing my husband and myself ,, i thought about getting something to help me pick myself up yesterday i am also really depressed ,,i get even more upset when a certain family member comes around who is pregnant with her second child and is abusing drugs ,, it makes me question god , and pushes me away from anything god like , i have no faith left , im just a mess , i dont wanna be around anyone or go anywhere ,,, the worst of it is that i told my family and some friends about the test coming back pos then having to tell them the hard truth later makes it worse ,, constantly getting asked if your okay calls and txt ,, i hope you start to feel better soon ,, i will keep you updated on what the dr says i have to get a complete work up ,, she wants me to try again soon but im not sure i could go through this again ...you think with my team of drs being high risk and early loss specialist they would have some answers but they dont

How are you doing? I hope better. I started Wellbutrin a few days ago and I do feel much better. I started going to the gym like a crazy woman too. I was just thinking of you and I hope you are feeling a little better. Everything you felt emotionally I think is normal for any woman to feel. I got mixed feelings on trying again. Don't know if I can handle it again.

I am doing ok , i go to the dr tomorrow for my work up and supplements .. i want to try again but like you im scared at the same time so , right now im just letting things go with the flow ,, im glad you are keeping my mind occupied,i am doing the same working on my house ,, i will let you know what the dr says yetserday ,,,oh WAIT .. my sister is a health guru and she told me to drink YOGI RED RASPBERRY TEA,, to strengthen my uterus,,i think you should try it im going to grab a box if walmart .. if they dont have it il buy from the the web page ,, i will also know if it helps me any ..keep in touch !!

That's funny you brought up yogi tea. I drink that brand already but I'll have to try the flavor you suggested. Glad your keeping busy. I know for me it helps. Got a little sad last night about things. Just trying to stay positive. I hope your doctors appt goes well. I think at this point I'm going to do like you and go with the flow. I am only working out so much because I gained ten pounds while I was preggo and it's something to do. My husband works about 80 hours a week so he's never home. We travel for his work. I have no family around. Only when his job brings is to florida. Right now I'm on New York. We were here last year and I do have a few friends. My best friend is in boston so only a couple hours away. I get lonely lol. I try to do a lot of hiking because that clears my mind but it rains here all the time for days on end. The bugs (horseflies a mosquitoes) are really bad this year. I took my dog on my fav trail and we were attacked lol. So I'm having to stick with the gym. I also started having more back pain then usual while pregnant that only got worse after I lost the baby. Turns out I have arthritis in my back. I'm 31 so I'm mad about that too. I'm still young so I can't believe it. Oh well such is life. Sorry for babbling let me know how it goes today hopefully only good news!

I'll join you on here again. Hopefully we'll all get to move to the other website again soon. :)

Hey aceron!! Least we know each other!!!im sorry your hear too :(