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Great topic! I start feeling "out "every cycle at about 9 dpo and this feeling keeps solidifying from that point on. The reason being: no CM, no implantation spotting, no cramping that would indicate implantation, no sore or tingling sensation on the nipples. Hoping you see a BFP soon.

@Mozart Thank you! Surprisingly I have resisted the urge to early test. Sending lots of your way. The 2 things I did differently this cycle that I feel made a big impact on my fertility are taking flaxseed oil capsules from day one of my cycle up until ovulation and Geritol throughout the entire month. I've had really wacky hormones, but I feel realy balanced this cycle...even if I don't get my BFP.

I like this topic too. I had that hope feelings last month . I could actually feel that Ovulated, I got horrible cramps and so on, the whole package of symptoms but as the days were going on I had nothing concrete , So far that last month it was quite a shock because I stayed positive almost until the end.

This month and the months before I already feel out because I have multiples patches of EWCM and a wacky BBT pattern. I am not even sure I ovulated maybe not yet but yeah that feeling is already there somewhere. Hopefully your DH is right.

I have mixed feeling through TWW: sometimes I'm sure I'm pregnant than other times I just know that I'm not, like so many times before..

But what's funny about me is that I'm capable every month after month, like a crazy person, surf the web in surch of other experiences that pre-AF cramps mean that I'm pregnant.. even though I know deep inside that it happens every month and that it means the red witch is on her way hahaha...

But when I'm really sure that it's not this month is after my boobs get smaller again. Then I know AF is there in a day or two. Every time I was pregnant they would stay and keep getting bigger...

@lalou3tt3 I know what you mean about the "symptoms package" lol. I've been very calm this cycle....I try to remind myself that I always feel "something" in every cycle. There's only one odd symptom that I've never noticed I had and that's the really watery/milky CM, especially with AF so close. I really feel out today, but hubby is still hanging on to the idea of a baby bean in here so tomorrow will have the final say if AF shows her creepy little face

@tayla1801 I'm the same way every month too....I'm a major symptom stalker every month and always seem to find someone's symtoms that match mines that could possibly mean a for me. Such a vicious cycle we're in

I'm definitely not much of a symptom tracker at all because it definitely starts to drive me crazy, however this cycle DH told me he's looking to hear some good news, which he has never nsaid to me before. I got up this morning and my nipples were sore and they always are before AF. Plus I just "feel" like I'm out. Idk....I know that he's very supportive but ever since then, Internally I've been kind of stressing out.

@hopefullyamommy symptom tracking definitely makes you a bit crazy. I only started back tracking because I was so anxious to know if there were any difference in symptoms after taking the flaxseed and geritol. But it's sooo hard not to obsess about something you want so badly! to you Hun

BabyDreams-That's how it was when I first started the PreSeed. Now that I'm using PreSeed and the OPKs, I want to track, but I can't. I want it so bad and I don't understand why it's not happening for me. I've tried everything that I could think of this cycle, so hopefully this is for me. It is hard to not obsess about this, but I hope you bean is s sticky one!

@babydreams, my feeling of being "out" turned into a definite "out". As suspected the blood test came back negative. I believe that most women "know" that they conceived because of various little signs unique to their intuition and familiarity with their bodies and cycles. Still Fx for you - it's like a mental marathon until we get to the end of the lp and know what's what <3

@mozart so sorry to hear...I'm also out. AF starts tomorrow and earlier this evening I got my pre-AF spotting. So the clock resets. Surprisingly I don't feel as bummed as I thought I would. Possibly because I've been down this road so many times that it just doesn't effect me as much. So let's try to stay positive for the next round