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HELP!Newly preg&going on a prebooked vacay to a party to

My husband and I have been TTC since last fall and after April was yet another BFN.. I decided that mentally, I needed to stop obsessing and that I was beyond stressed.

My husband felt bad about our other current stressors and told me to book a mini vacation, for just us 2! So, we got a room at a super romantic b&b on the beach and lined up a sitter for our 14 month old.

*1 week later*
BFPs! !
I've taken 3 HPTs AND had blood work done.. we are expecting baby #2!

Now my question is... how does one go about having fun without the drinking and partying we'd planned on dabbling in on our extended weekend getaway in less than 2 weeks from now. We'd picked a city in Florida that has a pretty upbeat nightlife and bar scene so we could just be adults without worry for a while, and now I'm concerned we'll be disappointed that I picked this location. Ugh, I think mostly this is hormones talking. . . but if there's any insight, I'd love to hear it.

(One thing we've agreed on is metal detecting the beaches.. haha, thinking that'll be pretty harmless! )


Silas born: 03/14/2013 (my Pi baby! ) Baby #2 ETA: 01/29/2015

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Congratulations first of all!

About your questions, my personal feelings are that alcohol is poison to the body anyway. About the partying.. I've found that, for me at least, being with my king is enough to make me happy doing whatever. Whenever we go somewhere we feel more alive and connected with the universe when we spent time in Jah's creations. Whether it be sitting in the yard pulling weeds or hanging out in the park or at a lake with our feet in the water or dirt.


"Whatever is to be, must be" - Bob Marley

9 years ago


Congrats! I guess I'd say it depends on how you feel about going to clubs and not drinking. If you can have fun just drinking water, then I'd say go anyhow and enjoy the dancing. But if you'd just be annoyed at all the people that get to drink, then I'd skip it, lol. Metal detecting is a good idea. Maybe just hanging out at the beach and relaxing with just the two of you would be nice. Or do some sightseeing?


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