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IUI take 12. My first post. Looking for support

Hi. This is my first time posting. I am 31 years old registered nurse. My husband is 37. We have been trying from 20 months, to conceive our first baby. We have spent the last 12 months working with an RE, and trying fertility treatments. I started with a natural IUI, then clomid + IUI for a few cycles. Then letrozole + IUI for a few cycles, and finally injections of Follistim + IUI for a few cycles. Had my tubes flushed, a thorough work up, and was labeled with "unexplained infertility".

Last month I scheduled a meeting with a new doctor for a second opinion. He looked at my medical records and diagnosed me with PCOS. (First doctor swore that I don't have PCOS) So I started metformin three times a day for the PCOS, and took letrozole again this cycle. Going in for IUI in the next few days.

Anyone with similar stories? Or going through fertility treatments for a while now? I am desperate to find a support group, but can't find any near where I live in the suburbs of Philadelphia. I think I'm turning to this site for support and to find some women going through this as well. It's so hard feeling like I'm going through this alone.

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I am currently 12 past IUI. I have been undergoing treatments for a year now. It's very frustrating to say the least. I go for my beta hcg tomorrow but I do not think I'm pregnant. Been through it all as well-HSG, lab work, ultrasound and was dx'd with 2nd Infertility.

-Victoria

9 years ago


I'll keep my finger crossed for you with your blood work, Victoria. Staying positive through all of this is really hard. With so many IUIs, our odds of getting lucky one of these months has to be good.

9 years ago • Post starter


Hi 30something,

Hubby and I have been TTC for 23 months. We've been seeing an RE for 7 months. I'm 30 and hubby is 34. My situation is similar to yours being 'unexplained infertility'. We've both had testing (all with great numbers), lab work, HSG, cycles with Clomid, Fermara, ovidrel, injectables with no luck. Next week will be our third IUI with Follistm + ovidrel. My RE suggested IVF after my second one failed. Because he's so quick to suggest IVF, this will be my last cycle with him. It's time we get a second opinion since I want more answers and not a quick solution to my problem. I've also incorporated acupuncture this cycle. I know it's hard looking for others that understand what you're going through- I'm in the same boat. Just know you're not alone! I've heard positive things about Resolve Association if you'd like to explore support groups near your area. I'm considering looking into one as it's taking a toll on me emotionally as well. *Hugs* to you.


TTC 2 years -Sought help with Specialist after trying 1 year without success (charting and timed intercourse) 2 cycles of Clomid 50mg 3 cycles of Fermara (last cycle with Fermara + Ovidrel) 1 cycle Follistim (resulted in spontaneous ovulation which my RE missed) 1 cycle Follistim (100 units day 5-7; 50 units day 8-11= overstimulated; canceled cycle) 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 4-12) + Ovidrel + First IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 3-9; then 75 units day 10-13) + Ovidrel + Second IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (75 units day 3-7; then 50 units day 8-10) + Ovidrel + Third IUI + Progesterone 3DPO

9 years ago


Hopefulbelly, thank you for sharing your experience. It really is comforting to know that I am not the only one going through this. A second opinion sounds like a great idea. I know it has been encouraging to me to have a new plan and a probably diagnosis. My new Dr. is very confident that he can give me the best chance at getting pregnant. Have to hope he is correct, I hope that the same thing happens for you. I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to.

-Maureen

9 years ago • Post starter


Hi Maureen,

Just checking in. Have you had your IUI yet? I know we're a few days apart. Checking to see how things went and how you're feeling. I go in for #3 tomorrow. Sending lots of baby dust your way!

xx


TTC 2 years -Sought help with Specialist after trying 1 year without success (charting and timed intercourse) 2 cycles of Clomid 50mg 3 cycles of Fermara (last cycle with Fermara + Ovidrel) 1 cycle Follistim (resulted in spontaneous ovulation which my RE missed) 1 cycle Follistim (100 units day 5-7; 50 units day 8-11= overstimulated; canceled cycle) 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 4-12) + Ovidrel + First IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 3-9; then 75 units day 10-13) + Ovidrel + Second IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (75 units day 3-7; then 50 units day 8-10) + Ovidrel + Third IUI + Progesterone 3DPO

9 years ago


Hi Hopefulbelly,

I had my IUI on Monday morning. Seems like the timing was just right, according to my ultrasounds on Sunday and then Monday.
Good luck tomorrow! I'll be thinking of you! Then it seems like we're both on to the same two week wait.

Maureen

9 years ago • Post starter


It sounds like you're off to a great start!! I knew it was right around the corner. I took my trigger shot yesterday after my scan (2 17-18mm nice sized follicles). I've only had 1 decent sized follicle in my previous IUIs, so I'm hoping for a miracle tomorrow. Then onto the 2WW. Excited to have someone to countdown this cycle with! Thank you for the kind words! I'll be in touch.


TTC 2 years -Sought help with Specialist after trying 1 year without success (charting and timed intercourse) 2 cycles of Clomid 50mg 3 cycles of Fermara (last cycle with Fermara + Ovidrel) 1 cycle Follistim (resulted in spontaneous ovulation which my RE missed) 1 cycle Follistim (100 units day 5-7; 50 units day 8-11= overstimulated; canceled cycle) 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 4-12) + Ovidrel + First IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (50 units day 3-9; then 75 units day 10-13) + Ovidrel + Second IUI + Progesterone 3DPO 1 cycle Follistim (75 units day 3-7; then 50 units day 8-10) + Ovidrel + Third IUI + Progesterone 3DPO

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