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Repeat loss

Hi all,

I'm hoping for some positive stories, or even just someone going through this so maybe we can offer some sort of support for each other.

I'm 28 (well- I'll be 29 in a week), DH is 30. I don't ovulate regularly on my own (PCOS). My husband and I got pregnant naturally our first month trying, this January, but I had a m/c (baby measured 9 weeks, heartbeat was gone) and had a d&c. It was Turner's Syndrome. I was told over and over that it was a one time fluke and very unlikely to happen again.

We waited impatiently but from March-June I didn't ovulate, so we met with a fertility doctor and started injections. First month, I got OHSS and we cancelled the cycle. Second month, IUI was timed poorly, and third month (August) I got pregnant. Today I went for my ultrasound and there is no heartbeat. I'm set up for another d&c in two days.

I'm beyond devastated and can't help fearing the worst- that we will never have kids and that there is something very wrong with us (me). Has anyone had multiple chromosomal losses and then went on to have successful pregnancies? My RE is recommending we go straight to IVF with PGD to screen the embryos. He says this is "highly unusual" for someone my age to have two back to back chromosomal losses (he is assuming this one is a chromosomal issue too).

I really appreciate any insight or stories.

Thanks!

D&C 3/13/15 @ 9 weeks, Turner's Syndrome D&C 9/25/15 @ 7 weeks, normal baby Misoprostol, 1/8/16 @ 7 weeks, Turner's Syndrome AGAIN! Me- 29, PCOS, small septum (removed), stage 3 endometriosis, homozygous MTHFR c677t, ANA + DH- 30, Low-ish count, poor morphology, varicocele TTC #1 since December 2014 January 2015- Natural BFP March 2015- m/c at 9 weeks June 2015- follistim + ganirelix + pregnyl = cancelled, overstimmed July 2015- follistim + ganirelix + pregnyl + iui = BFN August 2015- follistim + ganirelix + pregnyl + iui = BFP September 2015- No heartbeat, d&c October 2015- laparoscopy/hysteroscopy- dx = stage 3 endometriosis, small uterine septum, tubes clear November 2015- follistim + ganirelix + pregnyl = BFP January 2016- Heartbeat gone @ 7 weeks

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