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It's okay, Hun.

I too, have made that decision at 9 weeks (I was 18, already had my first - she was 3 months at the time..we just couldn't have another that soon!) I went through the surgecial procedure, took therapy and about a year later fell pregnant my 3rd time, HAD to keep her - had a very healthy pregnancy, too!

I know exactly how you feel...I was terrified for a while that I wouldn't be able to conceive after having an abortion. To this day I still cry about it... But luckily, I was able to have another...and now that we're TTC #4, I worry that it still may impact my ability to have a sticky bean.

Just remember to take every day at a time, keep your chin up and don't be afraid to be brutally honest to yourself! It's the best way to face your demons and have a realistic approach.

Happy Mother's Day! And Praying for you to get your and that the stays away!!

Thank u soo much Joriefm. I really needed this. I didn't know where to turn and didn't know if people would be judgmental of my post or even respond. So I'm grateful that u took the time out to and that you didn't judge me. Thank u! Definitely what I needed to be encouraged to keep moving forward and leave my past behind me. Happy mother's day or I like to call it
"happy superwoman' s day" to u.