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Sad depressive feelings after BFN
Ok I just hot a BFN , no AF cd 30 14dpo
I did test in arvo but figured I would be safe being two days past AF due date.
I have no cramping as I do a day before AF
But strange twinging and pulling, lots of cm and headaches, tired and dizziness.
I have had cm since o. Not usual for me.
I got so excited when AF didn't show YET
But got BFN on a first response
Now so dejected as my miracle dec bub I'd not happening
Dec was out pick as my DH father bday is 11th which was my estimated due date, he passed away unexpectedly a year ago.
Jan and March are full of bdays so really was our last shot.
Now sitting here sad and teary with a ciggie I know I shouldn't have and haven't had since last child was thought off 4years ago.
Bad I know and self pity is stupid.
We had IVF for first and surprise second
So again greedy to expect a third I guess
Any one else get so low they thought enough odd enough with TTC
Il get over it . DH gets home tonight after working away do il relax with him I'm sure.
2 Replies • 10 years ago
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Oh woman issues, I'm sorry you are so down. It's gut wrenching seeing a bfn! This ttc journey is a tough hard and lonely road. And I don't think anyone not going through the heartache of trying and trying with no luck will ever fully understand the difficulty of it.
Big hugs and I hope you feel a little brighter soon. Feel free to add me as a friend and chat anytime you need to x
And don't beat yourself up over one ciggie...it's not the end of the world...tomorrow is a new day x
10 years ago
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