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Hi Everyone,

I am 44 this year and am TTC, I got married back in 2012 to my DH... We had a MC back in 2011.

I have 2 daughters for my previous married aged 20 & 16 with we love dearly.

I had been on the POP Cerazette/Cerelle for about 2 years and have hear so horror stories about not having AF etc...

Well I had been one of the lucky ones so far, I came off POP Jan 29th 2014 & O on the 13th.
Then on 15dpo AF came.

I guess I had mixed feelings as we are TTC but was still happy that we are in the game.

Anyone in the same boat?

Please share your stories

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Beaedghill - I would be so anxious to test. It sounds like wonderful news though!
Jaxx - any news yet? Btw - we passed thru dc (never been there)on our way to the outerbanks. I'm from Ohio.


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9 years ago


When you testing beaedhill? xx

9 years ago • Post starter


beadghill give us the great news!!!!

karlou u officially entered the tww zone!!!! hope you get your BFP this time!!! oh and ckat24 you are in the same zone.
Jaxxx wish u the best results!!!!

went to a new doctor today. he was the best!!!!
Finally i have a doctor with some strategy not the usual "it is your age, eggs are not fresh give it a few months and try an iff"

I ll have to DTD sunday and then monday he is going to take sample from cervix to see if there are sperms alive and my CM. (there is actually one word for it but i cannot find an english translation)

he thinks my progesterone levels need a boost and he also wants to check that my luteal phase is long enough for the egg to grow properly.

he is a gyno but specialised in female endocrinology and fertility issues.

Has anyone checked there luteal phase and blah blah blah?

kisses lovely ladies

PS is anyone trying for their first?

9 years ago


Morning hunni,

Sounds like some good news, at least you know you are going forward now.

My luteal phase ranges from 12-13 days.
mostly 12 days but 2 out of 7 months it has been 13 days.

as long as it is over 10 days it should be good, whats your luteal phase hun? xx

9 years ago • Post starter


Hello!

Merenda - My luteal phase is also usually 12-13 days. Good news about your new doctor that can make all the difference in the world.

Karlou - good luck with your 2ww! &

No news here just waiting for af to leave as she was an unwelcome guest!


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9 years ago


Thank you sweet heart xx

9 years ago • Post starter


Hi!

Nope BFP here! Have an appointment with my RE on Monday! He is a lovely man. Will see what he says from there???? Have to be honest though, going in to see the DR always boosts my blood pressure 10 points and makes me want to cry! I'm such a baby!!! LOL Merenda good luck with your Dr appointment. I always like to go in with a plan, yes, I follow theirs, but it lets me feel a bit involved!

BabyAngelG, Ohio sounds lovely, passed though it on our way to Chicago!

Beaedhill - hope its your month!!!!

Karlou, you are the leader of the pack, set the BFP and we will all try to follow! Good luck in the tww! Am keeping my fingers x!

Love and (((((hugs)))) to all!

9 years ago


It sure would be amazing I must say....4dpo sore nips and sharp Cramp's early evening...I hope its a good sign...but probably IBS playing up lol... Good luck to all my lovely ladies xx

9 years ago • Post starter


Hey everybοdy!!!
any news frοm beadghill???
i m sοrry Jaxx... i hοpe this was yοur last BFN

Karlοu tww wait makes us feel insane :))))
i dοn t knοw if i have οv yet and tοday i have cramps and a little nausea just because i DTD LοL

i am οff tο the new dοctοr. the test i was telling yοu abοut is "HUHNERS TEST" and it shοws cοmpatibility between sperm and cm amοng οther things.

i dοesn t matter if yοu have already gave birth οr gοt pregnant because cm and sperm change with age.

here is a link if you wanna check it out http://www.labtesthelp.com/test/Sims-Huhner_Test

i ll let you know more when i get back

kisses to all

9 years ago


sorry for previous message i just saw all o's look arabic or smth

so i m writing again
Hey everybody!!!
any news from beadghill???
i m sorry Jaxx... i hope this was your last BFN

Karlou tww wait makes us feel insane :))))
i don t know if i have ov yet and today i have cramps and a little nausea just because i DTD LoL

i am off to the new doctor. the test i was telling you about is "HUHNERS TEST" and it shows compatibility between sperm and cm among other things.

i doesn t matter if you have already gave birth or got pregnant because cm and sperm change with age.

here is a link if you wanna check it out http://www.labtesthelp.com/test/Sims-Huhner_Test

i ll let you know more when i get back

kisses to all

UPDATE

just got back. had a 16mm follie. the test showed alive and kicking sperm so we are good. I ll go back wednesday to see how big the follie is, how thick my endometrium has gotten and count my progesterone levels.

He said luteal phase and progesterone are (if that s the case) a problem that causes infertility and miscarriages but it is easily solved.

well that s about it. I feel optimistic

my best wishes and thoughts for all of us



9 years ago



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