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Tiff n Tamika, need to visit the Doc, just incase.

My temps are stupid !

And i'm feeling shitty, 7 girls in my TTC on FB got a BFPP this morning :(
Come Onnnnn!! we need our turn now :(

Sorry to hear about the BFN Tiff, especially as you really felt like this was the one. It could still be, I hope the doctor can give you a clearer picture.

Same for you Tamika, good luck with the doctor visit. This is all very frustrating and upsetting isn't it? We are here for you both.

Sam I'm sorry to hear you are down, I hope you feel better soon.

Tracey wow that is a lot of BFPs in one morning on facebook, one is hard enough to deal with. Several of my friends are pregnant and its bittersweet for me. I hope this forum has just as many BFPs very soon!

I'm kind of just floating in and out here, sorry if I missed anyone or didn't refer to anything. I'm just feeling a bit down myself actually. :( X Jodi

It must be the day for feeling down it seems we all have a case of the blues.

My OH is staying really optimistic giving me the it could be an implantation dip it's way too early for your period lecture....... Really not feeling it since the dip was massive and it just doesn't feel like my month

Wow Tracey that's a lot of BFPs

There's round 1200members on the FB TTC and 7 BFPs today makes me a bit jealous but hopeful also. Just a depressing day here to :(

Thanks heaps girls! i feel very luck to b on this forum, and very loved!! I rang my drs office and shes printing off another referral to get both types of pregnancy bloods. So ill collect that this arvo, and get the test done and pray that shes on tomorrow to give me the results!! My bestie always said "dont believe a neg result unless u get ur period"! so thats the mantra im going with. My boobs r soo sore, even last night, i could only lay on my left side as thats my smaller boob side lol and even then they still hurt.

I Googled "CD37, 20DPO and BFN" and there was this 1 comment where this lady was on CD51 and had all negs even with blood test then on CD51 finally got a BFP!!!
So i guess theres still hope

Im trying to stay positive but its like every women i see is expecting. I either want my cycle to start or show a BFP!!! AAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

Thanks again girls

Love Love

I'm going to see my doctor Thursday for a referral to a fertility specialist. I know it's only been 2 months of ttc but I just want to make sure my endometriosis hasn't caused blockages in the Fallopian tubes or damage to my uterus..... Better to find out now than go through months of disappointment only to find out my suspicions were correct......my doctor will probably tell me to go away as the general time frame is 6 months with no luck but hopefully my being diagnosed at a young age will give him a kick up the pants and he will give it to me!

TIFF good luck at the doctors I hope you get the news were all desperately craving for

Thanks Sam, Id get check out for sure, as u say better to know now then later on when u could have started the process alot sooner.
Its so good to be able to talk about all this as no1 knows were TTC!

Same here tiff I've told a few ppl but I haven't announced it from the roof top...... Only my mum and a few work colleagues know. I've spoken to my mum a lot about it lately and she's told me to ditch the thermometer and the OPKs and do it how she did it back in the day which is as simply as trying without trying lol thanks mum.......

So i was able to get an appt with my dr instead of just the bloods referral, which was a bonus as shes pretty hard to get into.

Anyway explained everything that ive been doing since i last saw her on 24th feb and told her how ive been feeling etc. She checked my blood pressure and weight....which showed that ive lost 2kgs...which isnt good!! im already a thin person (at 45kg down to 43.5kg) who has a very hard time putting even 1kg of weight on! she just kept saying that my missed period is due to my bmi dropping.i told her how sore my boobs are and she just said it could b due to an on coming period...i can tell u from previously b/feeding my boobs feel like there engorged thats how sore they r..and pre-period boobies dont hurt this bad EVER!! She ordered more bloods including a hormonal check (im pretty sure i can tell her how hormonal i am with out a blood test lol). Then she decided to feel my tummy...and said "ok theres nothing there to feel"...which confused me even more as she didnt go into it further!!! Was it that she didnt feel anything else to explain my lack of period or was it she couldnt feel that i have a baby in there?!?!?!?

I was excited to get the appt to get some answers but ended up leaving more confused then when i started.

AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! y cant i get some answers!!!! Ive been so emotional all day...i just feel like crying but i know if i start i probably wont stop!!!

Im sorry for the venting...its just hard to explain all this to hubby without freaking him out.

Tiff I'm so sorry that the doctor's appt didn't go well. I guess at least the bloods will give more information. Vent anytime, that's what we are all here for, to listen and be there for each other. :)
Sam when my SIL went to the doctor for a referral she told him they'd been trying longer than they had as she was pretty eager to just get some answers. Just a thought. ;)

Hope everyone is well, I'm feeling really moody and cranky today.