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Don't worry, your feelings are completely normal!!!!! I have PCOS too. We got pregnant after a year of trying, but miscarried at 10 weeks. It felt incredibly cruel as we had tried to hard to get pregnant, and then to lose it. Five friends gave birth the month our baby was due and we are still trying to get pregnant. We are almost at 2 years of trying now. Don't worry about those feelings of jealousy, they are to be expected. How you deal with them is what you need to focus on. I avoid looking at all my friends' baby posts when I am feeling down. I talk openly about my feelings with a few trusted people, but don't rub it in. It is not their fault. My pregnant sister has cried with me over it which helps. Hopefully you can achieve some peace in your heart over it. But yes, it is a long hard road.

No it does not! I know exactly how you feel! One of my friends just found she is pregnant and planning a shotgun wedding for next week! While Im happy for her, my husband and I have been trying for 13 months and Im taking clomid for the first time this cycle. Have you tried clomid for your PCOS? Has your husband been tested to rule that out? I ovulate on my own every month, and have very regular periods, husband SA was fine and we still cant get pregnant! I guess when its time, its time and it will happen. But it is very hard trying with no success month after month. Good luck!