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Bindy. I am sure that it will happen for you!!

Warning: negative rant
I am out this month. O today and NO bd in fertile period. I dont want to go back to my dr. I dont want another lap. Im sick of dh being sick around O. I really just feel that it wont happen withou major intervention.

Dw autumn DH and I have beded twice this cycle that's it.......his always working on my o days and now with the spotting after sex I'm just over it all. It's also 40+ degrees Celsius here and I just hate everything atm. I head to the specialist next month in Sydney so yay 5hr drive alone to it as DH boss won't let him have time off to come with me there.

Divact hopefully ur cold will go soon.

Autumn I really hope you get ur bfp soon I hope all of us left do soon as well.

It must be the moon or something, because I have been in a terrible funk all day today. Feeling extra stressed and nothing is going right. And TTC feels hopeless and I'm not feeling optimistic about this cycle.

Sorry you're also feeling down, Autumn & Bindy. Hopefully the spotting is nothing to worry about, Bindy! Are you seeing a fertility specialist next month? And sorry about no fertile sex, Autumn!!! That is so frustrating.

I hope your cold goes away quickly, Divact! At least your ms is better!

A beach with a margarita and no cell phone or email sounds amazing right now!

I think it sounds like January blues. I hope everyone gets a bfp soon. I really didn't think it would happen, but I think tracking my temps helped me. I was only doing that in the last couple of months. I actually think we were "giving up" on sex too soon. 11 months with nothing is such a long time though. It was driving me nuts. I'm not all magnanimous toward other preggos now either though. Still has me seething when I hear someone say, "oh yes we will have a baby this year,"...and then they actually get pregnant in 5 seconds. I also still want to rip Baby on board badges off other pregnant women on the trains. Those badges are soooo passive aggressive and smug.

Now I'm in anxiety mode. Especially when I get cramps! Travelling for work too which sucks. I just want to be at home. I'll be checking this page for a ll the bfps soon to come!

Well, I am most likely out this cycle. My BF started having stomach pains on Tuesday and could barely get out of bed yesterday. He finally went to the dr yeaterday afternoon and they immediately sent him to the emergency room for tests. He's been in the hospital since and will probably be there for at least a few more days. Apparently he has something with a fancy name, but basically means he has an infection which lead to a rupture in his abdomen. We are just hoping that the antibiotics will do the trick and that he won't need surgery. Poor guy. He is truly miserable and I feel so bad for him! The dr said that it could be several weeks before he's feeling up for much (this is without surgery). If he doesn't need emergency surgery now, then he still may need surgey to fix the problem in 8-12 weeks. So, all thoughts of babies are temporarily on the back burner.

I hope everyone else is having a better week!!!

Yikes! My dad had something like that in his intestines last year. They were able to clear it up without surgery finally, and the hole eventually closed itself. He was back on his feet in no time. At least for your bf they found it fast! My dad had to back back two times before they made that diagnosis!

I hate to say it, but maybe a little break couldn't hurt just to think about other things and enjoy life a bit. And a two month break would save you from having that October/November baby, right? Now you might have a Christmas or New Years baby!

Glad your dad healed up fine after his episode, Divact. Yes, it sounds very similar to what BF has. Unless something changes, no surgery at least immediately for him, so thankful for that!

There is a certain amount of peace that comes with knowing that I don't have to worry about timing sex around O and no TWW for once!

And that's when everyone gets pregnant. Lol just when they think, it won't happen this month and I can relax. :)

I hope at least he isn't suffering too much!

So figured out what the bleeding after sex is......metformin can make down their dry......which sucks so have a slight cut inside that I need to heal up could take anywhere from 2-4 weeks to heal which means no sex till than :( so I'm out this cycle and prob next as well. However to try fix the dryness I'm now using pressed so will see how that goes.

Dogmom I'm sorry to hear about ur BF I hope he gets well soon.

Yikes Bindy. I hope it doesn't hurt!!! I'm sure it will heal fast and you'll be back on your feet (or back) really soon. :)