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14dpiui AF should be here any day but no sign of her yet, no cramps etc and my temp is still high at 99, I wish she would come on, she shoud be here by Thursday

Got my 1st beta HCG results back for 17 DPO or 4.1 wks. It was 180....says that's in normal range for 4 wks (10-750).

Need some advice. Idk what is going on with my cycle this month. No O so far, figure its not happening this month as my temps are still low. Have been spotting/bleeding for 6 days now. Today it's almost enough to be considered light flow and had some clots. The strange thing is that it comes and goes. heavier the first half of the day then tapers off. Then starts back up the next day. Only cd17, should I be considering this a period? Was wanting to switch to femara next cycle if this one was unsuccessful that's why I'm trying to figure this out. My dr said she doesn't really know what's going on either but said if I wanted to see an infertility specialist she was ok with it. Don't really have the $ for that yet or the time to take off from work. Ugh I'm just so frustrated idk what to do or what is going on.

Bama I still have my fx for you and I'm hoping for the best. I know it's been a long hard road for you.

Beatles congrats! Yay for beta being in range. Can't wait to see your numbers next time.

Cristi wow that sounds like a super stressful and unfair situation. Best of luck dear.

Cristi, all I can say to that is W.T.F? bc they are really hurting anyone with the animals. Would maybe two weeks be better to find a new place? Jeez what do people get out of being a-holes? Really? My thoughts to you all during this crsppy time. Karma is a bitch!

Bama- damn AF! Have they tested you for anything else such as folic acid deficiencies or clotting disorders? Sometimes those things can keep a bean from implanting. I also would think they could bill those tests to something else of your insurance is picky about diagnoses and billing. A good friend had about 5 early losses before her RE ran a simple blood test to find out she needed however much more mg of folic acid and other supplements. I have faith you'll see a little one in your future.

Aculifer- well it sounds like neither ib as its too early I would suspect nor ovulation spotting. Sounds like a period? Do you have a history with irregular cycles or is this really random? My first suspicion is hormone bc this happened to my stepdaughter and they diagnosed it as hormonal. Been sick? Try anything new? Stress? Any of these things can affect our cycles. I hope it stops though. That's really frustrating and annoying. I would also think your Dr would have more solutions! But I have a feeling you experienced a short cycle for whatever reason.

Pbc I had an HSG done on cd10 and with the exception of the day after I have spotted/bled everyday since. I've heard of women having anovulatory cycles the cycle of their HSG but idk what to think of all the spotting. I was hoping my dr would of had more helpful advice but she's my family dr and I work for the clinic so I didn't really expect much. Cycles are usually 27-31 days never anything like this and never had an anovulatory cycle either that I know of. We have done some lab thyroid was fine and my progesterone was good the last 2 cycles.

Still so weird and I have no idea about hsgs. I figure the bleeding it could cause would be minimal. I could see how it could interrupt ovulation. So maybe that's what it did causing your next cycle to come earlier.

Yeah I figure this cycle is pretty much a bust. Now I've got a kidney/bladder infection on top of it. Just ready for the next cycle to get here so we can move on.

SMC, I used my provera when the dr didn't want me to yet... it is your body... your dr can make the suggestion but it is your call! Best of luck to you and loads of baby dust!

Bama, I'm sorry dear!

Beatles, are they going to do another blood draw? Sitck baby stick! :)

aculifer, I say take a test if it is negative and you have a decent amount of flow in the morning I would call it AF, but that is just me! Maybe ask your dr if you should consider this AF and start femara? Best of luck! Thank you... this is going to be a LONG week. The grandson keeps stopping by everyday... seriously... .my parents are elderly and have lived in this house for 5 years... they aren't some teenager punching the walls. UGH!

PBC, thanks friend! Yeah I have had a lot of not nice things to say. I thought I was going to end up in handcuffs today... the grandson pulled up and I tore into him. I said "they are elderly and live on SS and retirement and neither is much, don't you think they should get a little more time. You are making them homeless for the first time in their lives"... ugh I am so pissed! Anyways, they are moving everything into our garage so Shaun is losing his man cave for a bit but he is okay with it. We are putting a bed in the nursery and giving my parents our bedroom. Going to be interesting adding 2 more adults, 2 dogs and cats. LOL! Things are about to get fun! I do think we may have found them a place but they won't have the money for everything until the 1st! Thanks for the thoughts (sorry to ramble on)... Karma, please invite me when you visit these a-holes!

Another negative test this morning... just waiting to test in the morning. LOL. Have a great night everyone and lots of baby dust and sticky vibes!

SMC- my doctor refused to up the dosage of my clomid after my failed IUI in May because he want you to have 3 failed attempts, dh and I pay for this outta pocket so waiting for 3 failed attempts is not something we want. So I took matters in my own hands I filled my clomid in June saved them and took them with my July pills lol!

Cristi I am 7dpo and 6dpiui today, almost done with the first week!!!

No AF still. Temp is 99.3 WTH