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Don't tell them you are ovulating. I stopped telling my husband because he would feel the same way or would just force it no fun. :)

So I just slip on something sexy, or bring out a video. Spice it up, he wont be able to resist. :) Don't think it is you hun, because it isn't. Men are just weird about being told when to do it. :)

Just take it easy, and just tell us when you are ovulating, that's what I do and it has worked wonders for us!

we've been trying for 12 month for our second. At first it was sex for the fun of it with a tad of planning, but for a time it felt very much a scheduled activity....

so we both decided to get back the fun of it as my hubby really felt pressured. it can take over if you let it and stop you from enjoying what you do have.

my hubby used to be really active leading up to ovulation but whenever i told him i was ovulating i used to feel like he wasn't as interested. i felt stressed and worried it wasn't going to work...not great combinations

now we do it every other day leading up to ovulation, then everyday during fertile stage. balanced fun with planning, and i make sure we both have a pamper day just before fertile range so were both relaxed and feeling close.

good luck xx