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Category: Trying to Conceive - TTC My First Child
Posted by MooneyBaby#1 » Jul. 17, 2012 6:11pm

As of today I'm 26 days late for my regular 36 day cycle and the doctor finally called me with the results of my ultrasound done this past Saturday.. I have a cyst in my right ovary!

I have to admit that I was hurt and I'm sad... But when God closes a door he opens a window for us. We just need to be in tuned with Him, put HIS plan before ours and have faith that He does know what is best for us and His mission for our life.

Just wanted any women out there that are not getting their even if you did have faith in Christ... It is all part of His plan.



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Reply by Alimaygirl » Jul. 17, 2012 11:01pm

So very true ... Also sometimes hard to remember when getting swept away in the emotion of our own hopes and plans though isnt it. I have a metabolic condition so pregnancy takes a lot of planning and half way along that journey I received news that I had suspected Hugh grade abnormalities on my pap smear .... Was hard to hold on to the knowledge that there was a greater plan than mine but was blessed with clear results from further tests and now hoping for a bfp this month

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Reply by lalie12 » Jul. 18, 2012 3:33am

Thank you for bringing me back to earth!
I was soooo dissapointed when AF arrived this moring, and just felt like I am not good enough to conceive a Child.

But I know that God has a plan set out even before I was even born.

Truly hope you will be blessed.

Baby Dust

Lalie xx

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Reply by bemo1234 » Jul. 18, 2012 4:19pm

I do agree with you ladies, God is able. Here some bible's verses idlk to share with you. I do meditate on them every day.

Don't be afraid, for I'am with you! Don't be fritened, for I'am your God! I strengthen you_ yes, I help you_ yes, I uphold you with my saving rigth hand! Isaiah 41:10

For I am the Lord your God, the one who takes hold of you rigth hand, who says to you, Don't be afraid, I am helping you.
Isaiah 41: 13
Is the Lord's hand shortened? Now you will see whether my word to you will come true or not! Numbers 14: 18

The one true God acts in a faithful manner; the Lord's promise is reliable; he is a shield to all who take shelter in him. Psalm 18:30

The one true God is my mighty refuge; he removes the obstacles in my way. 2 Samuel 22: 49

For I know what I have planed for you' says the Lord. I have plans to prosper you, not to harm you. I have plans to give you a future filled with hope. Jeremiah 29: 11

So do not throw away your confidence, because it has great reward. For you need endurance in order to do God's will and so receive what is promised. Hebrews 10: 35-36

Now without faith it is impossible to please him, for the one who approaches God must believe that he exist and that he rewards those who seek him. Hebrews 11:6

So that we who have found refuge in him may find strong encouragement to hold fast to the hope set before us througth two unchangeable things, since it is impossible for God to lie.
Hebrews 6:18

Hope that those bible's verses wil help you holding on to your dream. For nothing is imposible to God. ( Luke 1:37) and even people may have told you that it will impossible for you to achieve a pregnancy. Know that What is impossible for mere humans is possible for God. ( Luke 18:27)

May he grant your heart's desire; may he bring all your plans to pass! (Psalm 20:4)
May the sovereign God bless you! May he make you fruitful and give you multitude descendants! Then you will became a large nation.(Genesis 28:3)

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For I am the Lord your God, the one who takes hold of your rigth hand, who says to you, Don't be afraid, I'am helping you.



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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Jul. 18, 2012 5:00pm

@Bemo AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!

Thank you ladies for responding on here! Feels great to know that we're not alone. I will be sure to keep you all in my prayers!

I'm feeling alot better today after DH and I talked. It was bothering me that it didn't seem to bother him about my cyst but he was very sad and hurt that I was not pregnant.

God Bless you all!

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Reply by shawna_leigh » Jul. 19, 2012 7:04pm

"Faith in God includes Faith in His timing"

I have to remind myself this every single day. I'm 21 (yes I'm young) I've been with my husband for 8 years. Married for 1. We've been "putting it in God's hands since our wedding and actually TRYING (tracking temps, ovulation tests) since November.
I use to have really really unpredictable cycles. I could go like 4 months without one sometimes. In January they started to get more regular. We've literally timed it out almost perfect for the last 4 months. I ovulate between day 16-18. So we BD day's 12-20ish each cycle. I use ovulation tests so I know when exactly I ovulate just to be sure. Still nothing! I really thought this month was going to be successful. My boobs were killer sore, I have increased CM, sore throat, stuffy nose, bloating and gassy.
I'm now 14 dpo and still get a BPN. :(
It's sooo frustrating to be trying and doing everything "right" and still get no results.
Any suggestions??

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Reply by Alimaygirl » Aug. 1, 2012 6:54pm

Thanks so much for this post has been very helpful for me to remember this. I ended up getting two bfps and a positive blood test early last week but then by the end of the week had miscarried. My first miscarriage and I have to say the last couple of days have been hard emotionally, feeling rather fragile and weepy which is very unlike me. Have to just hold onto gods timing and plan in all of this. Would really appreciate prayer and will be praying for you all to. Shawna what ended up happening ? Did you get a bfp or did af show up ? Have you had any test for hormone levels speem count etc ? Baby dust to all xo

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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 2, 2012 10:28am

@Shawna I'm so sorry for not responding.. I didn't know I had to scroll so far down to see more posts I just thought they weren't showing up. As far as suggestions.. 1- I wanted to let you know about FertiliTea. I've recently started drinking it, it is supposed to regulate your cycles as well as increase fertility. 2 - I've realized that obsessing over tracking and knowing EXACTLY when we are ovulating is like trying to play God and we can't do that. I know that's what this site is designed for but when we make tracking, temping and testing our lives we've idolized something that is supposed to be a blessing. And when we put anything before God we are idolizing it. I realized it when I was going to the rest room in the morning, taking my phone and texting myself my temp before I even said thank you to the Lord for giving me another day. It's hard not to let this desire take over our lives and our every waking thought but there is more to life than trying to time when we are having a child. Now I'm just concentrating on eating healthier, exercising, dissolving my cyst, drinking FertiliTea, working on our business plan and my book. There is much more to life than just worrying about concieving a child and we have to allow God that reign.

@Alima I'm so very sorry for your loss! It always breaks my heart when I hear about this happening to women and I know it's hard to be positive through the pain. We just have to remember that the Lord has a plan for everything He puts us through. A co-worker of mine miscarried last year and it was hard helping her get through it. But when she did she ended up concieving healthy twin girls that are now going on 1 1/2 years old. I know it's hard to see the good in what the Lord allows us to go through but He does love us we know that, He does want us to carry out His mission for our lives but He has to know that we are willing to bear whatever cross He see fit for our lives. Whether it be chilldren or not.

You all are in my prayers daily! And please feel free to inbox me if you ever want to talk and I'm not online!

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Reply by readyready » Aug. 2, 2012 12:01pm

This is a hard journey for all of us. But, its for a reason and I know that it will be worth it.

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Reply by shawna_leigh » Aug. 3, 2012 6:22pm

Yes. I think I've been stressing about it too much. This month I've decided that for a couple months I'm not going to track anything, and just let things happen. We shall see how this goes! When I told my husband this, he just laughed and said I'd never last. lol. But lately I've been more at peace with everything. Hopefully this will help! I know it'll all happen when it's meant to be :)

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Reply by babiessoon » Aug. 5, 2012 11:12am

This was so helpful ladies,

I just came back on this site today, I only check it every couple months now because my cycles have been so off due to third degree burns and skin graft surgery on my right arm that I suffered last August, right after our wedding. :( I am also underweight but generally healthy and so what feels like "rejection" is very painful every month, after already suffering a life-changing accident.

Coming across these posts, particularly the bible verses was so helpful and exactly what i needed to see today. I was just looking on here for some "tricks" to getting pregnant but I agree you are so right, obsessing this way is like trying to play God, and he will GIVE us our beautiful babies when the time is right.

Now I am motivated to again start taking vitamins, and continue to eat healthy and maybe exercise haha and just enjoy this time in my life with a loving husband. .. and maybe research that FertiliTea :)

Thanks again ladies you are great examples of faith, and more helpful than any "tricks" that have been posted on other pages.

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Reply by WishinforaPeanutt » Aug. 6, 2012 11:27am

I'm glad I stopped at this post. To be quite honest, I've been so enveloped in timing, and tracking ... and worring about failure, that I never stopped to realize that it's really not in my hands. Preparing myself the best that I can, and making sure that when God does see the time fit, that I have a healthy, happy and fit uterus for little bean to nestle into -- those should be my goals right now.
Thanks for the reality check, and for the verses; they've helped me quite a bit. I'm definitely going to look into that FertiliTea!!


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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 6, 2012 11:44am

@Wishinforapeanut @babiessoon @shawna_leigh You ladies have NOOOOO idea how much happiness your responses have brought to me! I know there are so many times when I'm sitting at home feeling overwhelmed at the pregnant ladies, newborns and kids that keep surrounding me and feel like I'm the ONLY person in the world that feels this way. Then I get on here and by reading the posts I can see that "This is not what I need".

And this morning I was listening to 99.5 (Focus on the Family, Christina Radio Station) and there was a woman on there talking about how she was addicted to pleasing people, went and say a psychologist and he suggested she have a glass of wine when she's feeling overwhelmed, then she became an acoholic, quit, obsessed over people pleasing to the point where she signed up for EVERY SINGLE COMMITTEE in her church until someone called her back after getting off the phone with her and said "Have you been drinking? You sound like you have been drinking." I feel like my lonliness has been that voice to me.... Like while I'm sitting there saying I'm so lonely, I have no friends, no one understands me.. that I'm completely ignoring God and how He is trying to be there for me. Last week I posted a little something about how sad I was an ex girlfriend of a friend commented and was like "I'm here! Feel free to talk to me!" Then sent me a message in my inbox with her number! She's also Christian and has told me that if ever I need to talk just to contact her.. And how easily I forgot the sister the Lord sent me while I was so wrapped up in my own sorrow. And sometimes I think we do that to our husband's when we're so focused on getting that that we don't care if he's tired, don't care what kind of day he had, don't care what hurts on him, don't care how he feels as long as we when the time is RIGHT! That's sinful. How do we ignore our other half to fulfill an emptiness in us that can only with filled with Christ's love.. But then we're too focused on what WE want to let God fill that need.

Sorry that was a bit of a tangent.. I honestly had an AMAZING weekend celebrating DH's birthday and when we just couldn't keep our hands off each other! Not just to make a baby... but really to express our love.. and let me tell you ladies..... that was the BEST I've felt in a loooooong time... Because I wasn't connecting with my husband I was just having sex... and that's not what sex was made for.. it was made to precreate YES.. but it was made to express our love for our husband, to become one...

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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 6, 2012 11:45am

CORRECTION **99.5 (CHRISTIAN Radio station) lol

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Reply by shawna_leigh » Aug. 7, 2012 6:07pm

Had someone question my ability as a daycare provider because I myself do not have children. It killed me! This person use to be married to one of my best friends. He knows me as a person. So for him to bring our personal struggles into my business was ignorant. I was so upset at this personal attack! I posted something on facebook about it (Not mentioning names) later I thought again and realized I was just letting him get to me by showing his words affected me. But in my post, I had so many people write positive things about not only my daycare, but also about me being a 2nd mother to their kids. This brings me soo much joy to my life. Knowing even though I can't have kids right now, I'm still a mother figure to multiple kids. I also had a couple distant people on my friends list message me about their struggles and offered advise and support. I believe this is the reason why this IDIOT said these hurtful words. Because God wanted me to post about our struggles and receive help from unexpected people. God is great :)

On a lighter note...
I'm on day 19 of my cycle and still going strong! It feels soo weird to not plan our baby making around ovulation. It's much more relaxed and intimate! I hope to stay strong and not test early. We shall see if God thinks it's time yet :)

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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 8, 2012 11:12am

@Shawna_leigh I'm so sorry that you had to experience an ignorant and hurtful thing to tell someone. You are very right.. There are more than one way to be a mother and just because you don't have your own YET does not reflect what is in your heart. I've never had any children YET but I have friends from all different walks of live, friends and aquaintances that don't even know each other and they have all called me Mama T at one point. And not just recently.. Since I was in 5th grade.. I used to be so confused and hurt that people called me that because I was giving advice on relationships when I never had one, advice on pregnancy when I've never gone through it, advice on life when I'm so new at living it and advice on faith when mine seems so feeble. And for as long as I can remember I think "Why do people come to me with ALL their problems?!" It's just something.. a part of God that is in us that draws people to us. And in the same respect.. That "thing" is the same thing that draws satan to try to pick apart our lives, hit us where it hurts, and use others close to us to hurt us. To try and get us to fall, cause us to NOT act Chirst-like, cause us to lose ourselves. But if we fall it's the getting back up that makes us stronger, if we don't act Christ-like it will weigh on our hearts and we will learn for the next time, and if we lose ourselves CHRIST will find us!

Personally, I would talk to the person who said that to me. Express how they hurt me and how wrong they were to demean me like that and use my personal life as ammunition to put me down. I'd need to calm down a little first lol But I would voice that issue. Only because the Lord might have some learning in store for that person too. To me it is also a way to show how God loves us by acting out of love toward those who hurt us unintentionally or intentionally. Because we are called to love our enemies. Love those who put you down and hurt us. And if you think about it.. There could be a million and one things going on in that persons life that we might not know about... What if they need to hear and feel Christ's love? maybe that is why we are put in these situations?

As you can tell I'm a talker so I might be different.. but that's just how I would handle it. Again I'm so sorry you were hurt but all things happen for a reason and whether it be for you to receive comfort, or help others, the Lord's plan is at work in your life.. or else satan wouldn't be so concerned on trying to make you fall

About your lighter note I'm glad to hear your not trying to plan and I'm sooo happy that your feeling a difference! My husband and I discussed that this morning, how I'm trying to change my message to people on this site to connect more with their husbands instead of timing sex. When I said "Our husbands have feelings too and we shouldn't be acting like they don't just to time sex to try and have a baby" he smiled and nodded his head... A LOT. lol it was cute because I felt like he was happy I stood up for him.

to you! All you ladies are in my prayers! Let's keep the movement going!

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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 20, 2012 4:23pm

Love this Journal!

http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/homepage/my-journal_entry.php?u=84496&journalid=9472&commentadded=1

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Reply by Alimaygirl » Aug. 20, 2012 7:25pm

Ooh thanks mooney will go have a look.
I got a bfp last night but very very nervous after miscarriage last month do praying that this little one will stick . Baby dust and praying for u all.

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Reply by babiessoon » Aug. 20, 2012 10:46pm

!!! ALimaygirl!! Think positive! YOu are so blessed to have gotten your . Take good care of your self and that little bun! :)

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Reply by Alimaygirl » Aug. 21, 2012 2:03am

Thanks so much babiessoon. Feeling very thankful, trying to trust and have faith and not worry to much and remember that whatever happens it is in Gods plan. ... A lot easier said than done though ! Baby dust and praying for u all ladies

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Reply by MooneyBaby#1 » Aug. 21, 2012 10:36am

@Alimaygirl on your

Don't let satan put down in your head or heart love! Take this time to enjoy the happiness of getting a If we trust in what the Lord has planned for us.. Trust Him like He loves us then we can not doubt or be scared of His plans because we do not know them! Stay prayed up and faithful in the Lord and He will not forsake you.

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