Trying to Conceive Discussion Forum

Reply by aromatherapy » Jun. 14, 2012 8:56am well it looks like the witch is gonna show up waaaaayyyy early this month, im only on cd20 today and have cramps like she will start with in the next 2 days. the only good thing about that is i will be able to call monday to see if i can get in for a hsg earlier than i thought. cross your fingers girls. in canada here its nearly imposible to get in for an hsg especially in the town i live. its a crap shoot so it could be next week or it could be 3 months down the road. im getting very frustrated with the waiting game. i HATE it don't they realize that time is ticking fr me, god ill be 36 in july, like come doctor get your shit together, annnnd what happens if my tubes are blocked again, i just don't know if im willing to go through surgery again. this sucks... Report	aromatherapy Posts: 455

Reply by Just1more » Jun. 14, 2012 11:11am Ellie, I can't believe they pushed you back again, I think it is disgusting!!!! you have been waiting long enough, sending you hugs and hoping you will not be pushed back any longer.xxx Joy, Ouch thats a lot of money to have to spend out in one go, I hope the pups teeth aren't too bad and it doesn't cost as much as they first thought. I havetried taking pics of the tests but my phone is so crap it leaves the pics so blurry youcan't see anything. Unfortunately the surgery in my village gives you a dedicated Dr, which is great usually, but for things like this its a pain in the butt. I did think about lying, but I don't like to. I will just have to be patient and hope that something happens soon.xxx Gummybear, I am so glad you HCG is doubling, you must be so excited!!!xxx Krunchie, so pleased things are moving for you now. At least you and DH have a plan and you are both aware of the next step, which is great!!!!!xxx Mami, welcome to thread you will come to love it and be as addicted as the rest of us!!!xx Aroma, are you sure you haven't ovulated early and this is implantation, I will keep my fingers crossed for you hun, I hope the witch stays away and this is your month.xxx AFM, nothing really changed except I have been peeing loads today and (warning TMI) my bowels are very regular and loose. I am currently on CD 63 with 20 days till my blood test, not that I am counting. Thanks for your support through this horrible cycle, I don't think I could have done it without you all.xxx I had some bad news last night my Dad has been diagnosed with cancer of the liver and spleen, so if I am not posting as often it will be because I am busy with family stuff. Sabrina.xxx Report	Just1more Posts: 107

Reply by Expecting2Expect » Jun. 14, 2012 4:45pm Hi ladies! Sabrina - I am so sorry to hear about your Dad Cancer of all kinds kinda run in my family... earlier this year, my Dad had surgery for skin cancer and in 2010 my Grandfather (on my Dad's side) passed away from cancer in the bowl & lungs. My Mom is a breast cancer survivor, and my Grandpa (on Mom's side) a Prostate cancer surviver.... just to name a few. It really is a horrible & devistating disease. Sending lots of , 's, & healthy vibes your way... hopefully they caught it early enough to do something about it! Kristine - Ugh, that is so frustrating that they always make you wait.... I'm in Manitoba so I know what you mean about the health care taking forever in Canada... the waiting lists are rediculous... my Dad had to wait over 3 months to have his surgery to remove his skin cancer!!! (considering how quickly cancer can spread you would think they would have him in right away, but no.) Monica - Welcome to the thread!! This is an amazing bunch of ladies I am sure you will be just as addicted to this site as the rest of us soon! Have you used anything during your months ttc? Preseed, opks, charting bbt, etc etc? Katie - Yay for the "deposit" going in today! Hopefully this cycle will be a lucky one even without the IUI! hun! Jess - I agree, I would do anything for my pet, he's my baby too... just furry When my last dog was diagnosed with cancer we drove her halfway across the country to a vetrinary clinic where they do radiation & Chemotherapy... on three seperate occasions! Sadly it didnt help and we had to put her down, but we did everything in our power to help her get better! Elle - Any results yet?? AFM - Busy day today... went to my Grandparents house to do some cleaning for them, make the beds, cut Grandpa's hair, and gave Grandma a hair/scalp conditioning treatment then set her hair in rollers for her.... then Mom and I went to they gym and for tea. Now I am just checking my email etc while I have a minute. This evening I need to clean my house (we're having fathers day dinner here on Monday - which happens to be the day we get home from camping so wong have time to clean then!) Plus I need to do some laundry & finish packing whatever I can cause we leave tomorrow! Hope everyone has a great weekend! Probably wont be back online until Tuesday sometime!! xx Joy Report	Expecting2Expect Posts: 1861

Reply by _snowwhite_ » Jun. 14, 2012 5:52pm Hey ladies I'm at 10dpo. 4 days until AF. I don't know if a frer would pick anything up yet or not. I was thinking about trying one today or tomorrow. Report	_snowwhite_ Posts: 482

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 15, 2012 2:00am snowwhite - the FER might as they're supposed to work 6 days before your period BUT the earlier you test the less accurate the results. FRER like all tests isn't 99% accurate util the day of your missed period. if your do test. Joy, nope no results yet but my post doesn't usually arrive til afternoon. Ok so CD21, having blood taken this morning. OPKs are - but my cervix is high soft and open and I had very abundant EWCM yesterday and I have EWCM again today. So must still be 'gearing up' to OV... Report Clomid cycle #1 Clomid cycle #2 Clomid cycle #3	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 15, 2012 8:43am I'm so sick of being messed around by the clinic! we aren't getting the SA results. Not until we see the consultant. In august. If they don't push our appointment back for the 3rd time! The last 2 weeks of waiting for the mail was a waste of time!!! grrr Annoyed, sad, frustrated and feeling helpless. Next 2 months of TTC could be totally POINTLESS if DH has no Sperm etc. AND it's going to be that way with my results to, my scan, blood tests and HSG, all the results are going to the consultant and I have to sit around worrying about them til they can 'squeeze us in'. We can't even change to another clinic as they're all booked up for 3 months and we'd have to go through all of this again. I'm just so fed up Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by aromatherapy » Jun. 15, 2012 9:33am elle i feel your pain!!!!! trying to get in for the hsg is super frustrating because it can only be done from day 7 to day 14. and do you know how many friggin women out here get them. i don;t know why im even bothering to book one again as i know th tubes are blocked, why else haven't i gotten pg in the ast 3 months when we are bding the whole o time. there blocked and tht all there is to it... oh and to top it off once again a 23 yr girl at work is oops pg, but i was taking my pill, just not regularily, FML now i gotta deal with baby talk for 8 months again GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.... Report	aromatherapy Posts: 455

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 15, 2012 9:43am aromatherapy - Don't even get me started on HSG lol I couldn't get mine last cycle because the time of the month they could do it fell on a holiday weekend lol If I can't get in this next cycle I'll have to cancel my consultants appointment and have it delayed again until AFTER HSG because they won't do any treatment etc til they know my tubes are open, it just feels like a MASSIVE waiting game. By the time I have my consultant appointment I'll be 15 months post miscarriage and 3 years 6 months of TTC, soooo sick now we get our HSGs done soon Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by aromatherapy » Jun. 15, 2012 10:08am ya i know elle it will be 2 and half yrs since this whole thing started, when do you throw in the towel? its nothing but a waiting game for us long term ttcers and it really wears on you. im very short tempered and irratable and have been like that for 2 months now. i just hate everyone right now... lets PRAY we get in for our hsgs this month.... Report	aromatherapy Posts: 455

Reply by krunchie29 » Jun. 15, 2012 10:15am My doctor isn't going to bother even trying to see if my tube is blocked because she says it makes no difference at this stage because if it is blocked we would have to do ivf as she doesn't agree with the surgery to unblock tubes and if it's not blocked we would still be trying ivf because we still can't get preg ! Report	krunchie29 Posts: 545

Reply by monroezelda » Jun. 15, 2012 12:29pm Hi all, just want to say a big congrats too all who are pregnant and a big good luck and baby dust to those ttc. My names Gemma Im 27(28 in July) my partner is 35, we are from Liverpool England we have been together 9 and a half years, we have 3 children 2 boys 7 and 6 and a little girl who is 5 on Wednesday. I got pregnant back in September 2011 and MC 21st November at 11 weeks, I had to have a D&C because they suspected a molar pregnancy turned out it was just a normal MC, I bled very very heavy every day for 7 weeks, had my first period 21st January 2012, then I had spotting and irregular bleeding, losing lots of big clots and ended up In A&E, my periods went back to there usual 28 day cycle in march, I had a last period on may 11th so was due on June 8th I done a test on the 10th and again on 11t june both positive, I just booked a 7 week scan, 2nd july, Im so nervous as with my last MC I had no signs at all, carried the baby dead dor 4 weeks unknowingly no pains or bleeding till week 11, so abit panicky, fingers crossed everything goes well. good luck all take care. Report	monroezelda Posts: 22

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 16, 2012 2:44am well I think this cycles just a waste of time. OPKs are lighter than they have been but no +. cervix is high soft an open. EWCM has stopped Report Clomid cycle #1 Clomid cycle #2 Clomid cycle #3	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by krunchie29 » Jun. 16, 2012 4:32am Lh surge can happen in a matter of hours so it could be possible u just missed the surge? Or maybe your body tried and couldn't so will try again soon Report	krunchie29 Posts: 545

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 16, 2012 4:58am krunchie - I hope that's the case Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

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Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 16, 2012 10:03am aaah! another pregnancy lol I am pleased and stuff for the person but it also feels like torture :< so here's to another 8 months of scans and stuff that aren't mine haha Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 16, 2012 11:49am cd22 and my OPK is finally starting to darken lol so here's hoping it gets + soon, definitely going to be a long cycle which sucks!!! Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by Just1more » Jun. 16, 2012 12:41pm Gemma, Congratulations on your BFP, so sorry to hear of your previous loss, sending you lots of sticky dust. Good Luck and you will become very addicted to this site.xxx Joy, thanks hun, we have a lot of waiting to do and Dad is being very positive so fingers crossed everything will be ok. Enjoy your weekend!!!xxx Ellie, keeping my fingers crossed that you are finally ovulating, will this mean your cycles are getting longer agin or are they about the same as before? I hope you get some really good news soonxxx AFM, I started spotting today, it is very light and not really enough for even a panty liner, but I am hoping that it is either implantation or finally AF showing her ugly face so I can move on to the next cycle, currently on cd65, so I am very ready to move on!!!xxxx Report	Just1more Posts: 107

Reply by ellekayejaye » Jun. 16, 2012 3:35pm just1more - I'm glad your AF is finally on her way This means my cycles are getting longer again. they've varied from 31 to 42 days apart over the last year with one lasting 67 days in November lol Report	ellekayejaye Posts: 871

Reply by _snowwhite_ » Jun. 16, 2012 9:19pm Elle- I hope you get a surge soon Just1more- I'm glad AF is on her way Gemma- congrats Krunchie- I hope IUI works and you don't have to use ivf. Afm- I didn't test. I didn't have a test left after all. I'm going to wait for AF. If she doesn't show I'll go for bloodwork. I have a requisition left anyway. Report	_snowwhite_ Posts: 482