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Category: Trying to Conceive - TTC My First Child
Posted by tifflove » May. 21, 2012 10:35am

I started ttc again this month well actually last month. I had my last miscarraige on 2/26/12... What a horrible expereince i was hospitalized due to the amoutn of bleeding I was 11 wks and 5 days. two days until my doc appointment i lost my baby. So my temps have been up just about two weeks like i was ovulating or something that long. I didnt have in cm or nothing this month but those temps stayed up. So i bd anyhow maybe i missed it.. Between the new home and the chaos its possible. So I am 13 dpo today i can test today and tomorrow not sure if i want the disappointment. Only symptoms i have had was nausea and little twinges and muscle aches thats all. Af should show tomorrow i have had any of her symptoms though. I would have had some kind of cramping last week...or the week prior. I just need a little hope.. I had a support group in another chat but they eith pregnant now or they dont get on there anymore and im all alone.

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Reply by tifflove » May. 21, 2012 11:35am 5 VIEWS NO POST I CANT BE ALONE IN THIS ALSO.. Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by cnicole2284 » May. 21, 2012 2:11pm Hey Tiff. I am so sorry for all your loses. I have only had one miscarriage and one chemical pregnancy last month. Are your doctors running any test? After 3 miscarriages I would assume that they would want to monitor you closely? I am only CD 5 so I will not be testing till June. I would wait till tomorrow to test :) How are your symptoms? Report Miscarriage 1/6/2012	cnicole2284 Posts: 164

Reply by tifflove » May. 24, 2012 11:54am After the last MC in feb he asked for the next pregnancy to be monitored. Well I didnt want to go through it again but i decided last month one more try. So the doctor said when i get my bfp to make my appointment with him and he would like to monitor closely this one. So thats is. My symptoms well I think AF is due tomorrow and i believe I ov'd twice this month. I have had the lower left and right twinges, headaches, nose bleeds this morning, nausea(10 dpo). This morning i had slight af cramps but i had that last time also so i want go off of those feeling until she shows. I took a test yestrday at its bfn but as i stated af due tomorrow according to the first time i ov'd this month. Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by cnicole2284 » May. 24, 2012 2:48pm I feel ya on being monitored. I am suppose to call asap when I get a BFP but... I told my husband that I am not going to go in till atleast 6 weeks. I cant handle seeing the U/S with nothing on it again. I cant handle just seeing that bubble :( Good Luck!!! Let me know how it goes. I am not due to O till next tuesday! Ughhhhh Report Miscarriage 1/6/2012	cnicole2284 Posts: 164

Reply by kitykat » May. 25, 2012 1:59pm Hi girls, I can't even think how i would cope if i reached 11 weeks and then nothing. I struggled loseing 3 at 2 weeks which I know are only chemical but it still really hurt. My doctor at the hospital has wrote to my GP to insist that next time I have a blood test if I don't miss straight away (which is what normally happens). If I do make it to six weeks then my speshalist has said that I will need to go weekly for an ultrasound as I'm now high risk. I'm also waiting on a mass of blood tests to come back to see if there is anything underlying. However I had a scan privately last week and it showed that I have a Bicornuate uterus which I suspect is the cause. This means I can only keep hoping for my little miracle. Good luck Ladies Report	kitykat Posts: 48

Reply by tifflove » May. 29, 2012 1:01pm Yes chemicals are also horrible tricks that are played i have had a lot of those also. I dont know why it takes this long to get doctors to understand that I need to be closely monitored i report each pregnancy about the last mc's and they were like ok its ok or it wil be fine and it never does. Yes having to loose my baby at 11 wks was the worse thing ever i got to see the heart beat weeks prior then all of a sudden i loose my baby. Im so hurt and the support i use to have here is not the same anymore there is reallynot any one that has experienced what i have, So kow luck this month i will try again next month probably. Fingers crossed for you two ladies Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by cnicole2284 » May. 29, 2012 3:29pm Well ladies I am Oing!!!! Good luck to the both of you as well :) Report Miscarriage 1/6/2012	cnicole2284 Posts: 164

Reply by tifflove » May. 30, 2012 2:54pm GOOOOOOD LUCK nicole GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF US I WILL START OVER IN A FEW WEEKS IM ON CD7. Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by cnicole2284 » May. 30, 2012 3:13pm :) Is it funny that I LOVE the fact that I am having really bad pain in my left ovary :) Report Miscarriage 1/6/2012	cnicole2284 Posts: 164

Reply by kitykat » Jun. 1, 2012 2:06pm Good luck to you both and I'll keep my fingers crossed. I know what you mean Doctors really don't seem to be that bothered I have to say. I gave them the results of an ultrasound that I had done privetley as I was in pain and had to wait 7 weeks on the nhs. It showed a bicournet uterus which puts me in a high risk category if I do get pregnant and makes me prone to chemical pregnancies and miscarriages. However I have heard nothing from them and suspect that unless I book an appointment I won't. All my info has come from my own research as I have had no help. Once the doctor told me that maybe I hand''t had three chemicals and that It was me doing the tests wrong. Seriously how can I take one that wrong. Any way they referd me as i was upset and the specialist did indeed back me up and wrote to my GP confirming that I was right. However with that confirmation and my scan they have done nothing at all to help me. It's almost like a chemical pregnancy is insignificant and not real. Try telling my feelings that. Report	kitykat Posts: 48

Reply by tifflove » Jun. 4, 2012 4:46pm I know that is terrible. I remember telling my doctor i had many chemicals before an actually miscarriage.(well when a sac is seen) He said it was normal its only normal when its one or two. If we keep having chemicals there is something wrong. Chemicals are just awful jokes that our bodies play. Im lost for things to do or say now to keep me motivated in this I am now 31 and my eggs will be dried by next year...(ijs) But im still crossing my fingers and bd'n any chance possible.... Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by kitykat » Jun. 5, 2012 2:40pm I'm also 31 not far off 32 and all I keep thinking is that I have just 3 years until I reach 35 at which point the odds of becoming pregnant fall even further. I just want to scream at the doctors until they get up off their over paid uncaring butts and listen to me. I feel completely abandond by the doctors and nurses who are suposed to want to help. I will keep trying but I'm so scared of getting a positive only for it to be taken away just hours later. Is it just me, am I just exspecting to much. Keep trying though as it's not over for you or me yet. It is hard to keep going but we can do it if we all keep each other motivated. Report	kitykat Posts: 48

Reply by tifflove » Jun. 7, 2012 5:23pm You are right its not over,,, and i wish there were doctors that actually cared for us women that have to go throught this everytime we get a bfp. But we will keep us motivated we all we got :) Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by robntiff24 » Jun. 8, 2012 11:05am Hi, I was reading your posts, I have had two miscarriages and now I'm on my 3rd month post miscarriage..Two of my very close friends are pregnant, and one of them had a chemical and is pregnant again on her first cycle. I'm happy for her but it's hard for me not to be jealous a little :( I'm 29, my husband and I have been married for 9 years. Our first miscarriage was very early on in our marriage and our second was 8 years later, we thought for a very long time kids were not possible for us. This month has been horrible, I have had all kinds of symptoms and on my 11 dpo I started spotting. Needless to say I broke down and had a hissy fit. lol. Today I'm 14 dpo and have spotted a little each day with mild cramping. My AF is due today. I'm so upset and depressed getting out of bed just really takes a toll. I'm very sorry for your losses I can't imagine being that far along and losing a child, as mine were pretty early 6-8 weeks. Report	robntiff24 Posts: 1

Reply by kitykat » Jun. 8, 2012 3:44pm robntiff24 keep strong and although it's hard keep positive it can happen and it is hard to keep going but you can do it, i really beleive that. You just need to look at each month as you're chance to start a fresh and try again. If at first you don't succeed try, try, try again. Cheesy,yes but it keeps me going. Report	kitykat Posts: 48

Reply by Angelique716 » Jun. 9, 2012 9:51am Hi Ladies, First off, I'm sorry for all your loses. I'm a 30 year old married woman and my husband and I are trying to conceive our first child. In April, I was having super pregnancy syptoms, but all the test I took were neg. The syptoms kept getting stronger, I even had strong food aversions, especially to onions and chocolate. I asked a friend of mine who has three beautiful boys what I should do, she was positive I was pregnant and I should wait a week after AF was due to test. On 4/27, two days after AF was due, I began bleeding, it was crimson red but it wasn't enough to fill a pad. I went home and the bleeding stopped but I continued to have the pregnancy syptoms. I took a nap and when I awoke, I felt normal, all the syptoms just vanished and I was bleeding again with severe cramping. My friend suspected I had a chemical pregnancy. Before she told me that, I never heard of a cp. Needless to say I was heartbroken. To Tiff, My heart truly goes out to you and I really hope everything works out for you. To all the ladies, I wish you all the luck in TTC and much love to you all. Report	Angelique716 Posts: 8

Reply by jamienicole » Jun. 10, 2012 9:48am hi hun i just wanted to say sorry for ur losses..i lost 4 babies too my last one was etopic around this time last year :-( Report	jamienicole Posts: 1

Reply by kitykat » Jun. 10, 2012 2:34pm I'm thinking and hoping for you all. Report	kitykat Posts: 48

Reply by tifflove » Jun. 11, 2012 12:58pm You ladies are definently an inspiration to me. Im glad there are some that understand and actually gone through this rollar coaster. I am crossing fingers for a Positive this month but If not i will dust myself off and try again. It just gets so depressing and stressful. I just hate to go through another m/c my doctor said after one maybe two then u have a chance to success on the next but i have had the next and another. Some times i feel that I just cant bare a child. They told me when I was younger I possibly wouldnt have kids do to my rape. But Ihave gotten pregnant and its all about holding them. So I know I can get pregnant but how can i get the baby to stick. I think four more cycels and still a neg im out the race permanently. I cant bare the hurt much longer. Well good luck ladies cant wait to see the bfp this month for us. Report	tifflove Posts: 13

Reply by whitinglakeia » Jun. 16, 2012 9:48pm Hello Tiff, I can certainly understand the disappointment of having a miscarriage I have had 3 and it really sucks. I understand you not wanting to test either but you have to you are not in this alone. I am 33 and i am so convinced that God will bless me and dh with a beautiful healthy child. Just have Faith it will happen and Tiff, lots and lots of baby dust to you Report LCW	whitinglakeia Posts: 23