Day Period is Due-positive tests, high anxiety of chemical
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Category: After a Positive - Early Pregnancy Chatter Posted by lillisa122002 » May. 5, 2012 12:25pm Happy Saturday ladies!! So I'll try not to make this too long and I hope you can give me some positive thoughts today! I have a 2 year old son and my husband and I have been trying for another baby for a while... We have no problem conceiving but have had a miscarriage and 2 previous chemical pregnancies that were so disappointing!!! My last chemical loss was only last cycle.. Amd this month I am again getting a positive hpt!! ( I tested negative after the "period") so I am again pregnant this month... I can't help but be hopeful and want to scream in happiness, but I don't want to get too excited if we again are disappointed... Today is my period due date and I haven't told anyone, including my husband of the positive tests this month... I am dealing with this all on my own until I am at least a week late... But the anxiety is really getting to me!!! Every little cramp or twinge I freak out inside!!! I thought the two week wait was hard but this is so much harder!!!! Please give me some calming words and thoughts and help me through this!!! Report |
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Reply by wanting#4 » May. 5, 2012 1:09pm I thought the chemical pregnancies were pinpointed due to women testing early (way before AF was due like 9-12DPO) and then when AF did come on time that is how it was determined a chemical??? Maybe I am wrong...but my assumption/opinion is that is AF is due and not here and you got a + then you should be good hun :-) Good luck! Report |
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Reply by imatestingfool » May. 6, 2012 8:54am To the previous poster- yes, chemical pregnancies are very early losses where you get a BFP but start bleeding more or less when the period was due. But for all intents and purposes, the exact day doesn't matter much in terms of whether the pregnancy is viable (you can have an early loss at 4 or 5 or 6 weeks and the difference is only in the name- it doesn't make it any less disappointing to the mom). To the original poster, (((hugs))) I went through the same thing- had 1 baby, no problem, and then it took 9 months of trying to conceive our 2nd (daughter was about 2 like yours, too). Then I m/c at 5 weeks. Then I got pg the very next cycle and carried a healthy girl! I was nervous about m/c till 10 wks, though. Report |
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Reply by jesssienna » May. 17, 2012 1:20pm I am in the exact same boat this month. I have a daughter who is 12 and me and my husband have been trying since june 2010for our second. Got pregnant in april 2011 and sadly misscarried on may 2011. And then in October had a chemical. I just found out i am pregnant exactly a year after the first m/c and altoughi need to be excited i am so nervous. I really feel what you are going through. I talk to my gyno friend who said just because you had mc or mmc doesnt mean you will have it again and aLso nothing to do with chemical pregnancies as each pregnancy is different. Which made me feel a little better. she also said as long as nosign of period or any spotting you should enjoy being pregnant. I know its easy said then done. one other thing i did this month as well rang the doctor as soon as i found out i was pregnant and as he knew my history he referred me to early scanning unit so in two weeks time i will be going to ultrasound which is at least 4 weeks early for this country.(UK) he said as i will be then 6 weeks they should be able to see by then. apart from just not stressing and not going to toilet every five minutes to check if i come on i suppose all we can do is relax or try to. I wish all ttc and people are in our situation the best of luck and hopefully y full healthy happy 9 months. so sorry for long essay but i really felt i ought to share. best of luck xxx Report |
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