Trying to Conceive Discussion Forum

Reply by KATTACK » May. 23, 2012 11:16pm Well girls im out this month, went for a blood test and it was negative, they gave me the results in 15 minutes which was weirdbut whatevers. So now im here wondering what to do, take provera or wait for af to come on its own. I was really hoping clomid would work for me, its just my first round but I was hopeful. Soo bummed out right now :/ Report	KATTACK Posts: 43

Reply by mrsswift2010 » May. 24, 2012 7:20am @Kat Im sorry your out this month! It was the smallest dose of colmid so maybe your dose just needs to be upped a bit. I know the waiting sucks! @ Cass I am praying that it was IB for you! And jeez that surly sucks about your hospital! I hope you find a new Dr ASAP and you can make an appt. to get blood word done AFM- Im 2 days past ovulation and tomorrow I will find out If i for sure O'd and how big follicles are ! Report April 24= Provera 10 days 1st round Clomid 50 mg Cd 5-9 June 6 CD 1 2 nd round Clomid 100 mg CD 5-9	mrsswift2010 Posts: 65

Reply by cass23 » May. 24, 2012 11:34am The point is to get you to ovulate on it with the right dose, So if you ovulated on the mg your on then take the same mg again when the time is right, im like you wondering will i have to take provera again, and then clomid, can i just take the clomid lol. And Did i even truely ovulate was there a egg released or not?? I hate not knowing these things, It sucks. I feel like my doc doesnt realy care. I think im going to call the doc office. But i feel like i shouldnt have to they said they would call and give me directions to my next steps every month and there not following threw :( And there so close i realy dont want to have to go a hour out of my way. Just so so so very light pink dime size spotting still HMMM what is this, IB or Withdraw bleeding or something i hate my body right now i feel like its against me ! Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 24, 2012 1:27pm omg you guys im dying to start testing :) Feeling good about this for somereason, ether way im ok with it, you get used to disapointment after 12 months! Hopeing for the best. Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 24, 2012 4:53pm I had another NEgative OPK, and as far as i know if pregnant it will read positive. So im not feeling to good right now about takeing a test in the morning! Whats your take on it? Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 25, 2012 7:48am Im not happy!! Why ME? All iv done is barely spot like hardly nothing there the last 4 days. I feel so alone in this because my doc just gave up on me that makes me so angry and sad. I have Provera and clomid in my cabnit but i dont no what to do with it since doctor hasnt called, My last appointment was on the 15th its the 25 wth!! Im sorry this is just so overwhelming for me, I feel like crawling in a hole and just crying till i cant know more! i cant take this maybe i should just come to the conclusion that i cant have kids! Dont you guys get tired of feeling pregnant and then Geting no results its driveing me crazy. And i cant help but stop and think of all my friends and family who are fixing to start there own familys its depressing. My husband just tells me it takes time, Itll happen when its made to happen, ??? What does that mean?. Im not ready or something i understand hes just trying to help but maybe all i need right now is some understanding," As in i feel your pain your sadness and we can do this cheer up". Its sad that i can come up with that but cant take my own advice instead i want to here someone else say it. Well guess im back on track with you guys only, I dont have periods i dont ovulate? Why should i even try? Report	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by ttc4baby2 » May. 25, 2012 8:31am Hi Cass, I so understand how you feel. Its very hard to want to keep doing this when you feel like all you are doing is banging you head against the wall. It took me over 3 years to conceive my first (and only) Baby. It was so frustrating! And men just do not understand what it is to want a child the way a women does. But that is why God made us the child bearers! Men coould never do it. You can do this!!! Trust me. One step at a time. Dont let it get to big. Because thats when it looks hopeless. I know it is scary to find a new doc. but if they are not doing what you need them to do then you should. It will make a huge differance. I read post like yours and I just remeber that hopless feeling. The best thing I can say is this, and I hope it doesnt offend you. Do the work as far as the drugs and going to the Doc. But put the rest in Gods hands. Find strenght in knowing he has a plan. I hope that helps. I just stumbled on your post and I just really wanted to encourage you. Good luck I hope you get your Very soon Afm- I am on cycle day 13 and waiting to O. I will go for my IUI then and begin the CRAZY tww! Good Luck to all!! Report	ttc4baby2 Posts: 98

Reply by cass23 » May. 25, 2012 10:47am TY so much, Yeah i was haveing a bad morning, but after siting down and praying about it i decided to give it over to god once again for the hundreth thousand time lol he must realy love me to listen to me everytime im down, because after words i feel so so much better. Ok copyed and past this other half from other topic :) , Im feeling alot better, husbands home, prayed about it and feeling good, UPDATE: Doc said i did not ovualte and that Light bleeding was due to something else, I start Provera today and then wait for my period :) So that i can go another round of clomid. This will be my 2nd round! If anyone whats to look me up on facebook have at it. Cassandra Hall TN Allardt https://www.facebook.com/cassandra.hall.790 I have a butterfly timeline cover Love you guys, im glad your around to talk to about this stuff. Its just With this and other things going on in my life some times it gets to be to much to carry. Thats why i need to ask god to carry it for me. Well heres to another month together ladys \| Oh and you are welcome to join my other forum, On here its http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/forum/post.php?postid=9678&p=5#reply_59380 hope to see you there Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by mrsswift2010 » May. 25, 2012 11:31am Cass I am so sorry you feel the way you do! It will happen! I believe Things happen for a reason and your reason is coming up! I would assume that this is your PD and not start the provera but start your clomid on your reg. days (assuming that is CD 5-9) and in the mean time try and find a new Dr in your area! I wish you the best! AFM- I went to the Dr today and she said I for sure O'd and that my endometrium looks great. I guess I will start testing in 5 days or so! If no + test by CD34 then we start all over again! Report April 24= Provera 10 days 1st round Clomid 50 mg Cd 5-9 June 6 CD 1 2 nd round Clomid 100 mg CD 5-9	mrsswift2010 Posts: 65

Reply by Skyblueboston » May. 25, 2012 2:08pm Hi ladies I have pcos and have been pregnant on clomid 100mg this was my second round unfortunately I misscarried at 8 weeks. I'm now on my second to last day of 100mg of clomid I will be ov testing from day eight till I get a positive. Also keep up with the metformin I stopped this on the advice of the doc when I was pregnant BUT it has been proven that it is better to continue with metformin throught pregnancy. Also I will continue with baby asprin until I'm 36 weeks pregnant if it happens for me. Report	Skyblueboston Posts: 54

Reply by Skyblueboston » May. 25, 2012 2:15pm Clomid can be taken even if you haven't had a period but it's best when the old lining has been shed and a nice new one is ready and waiting for when you ovulate. Hope this helps Report	Skyblueboston Posts: 54

Reply by cass23 » May. 25, 2012 2:39pm Ty swift, I think im starting my period YAY!! lol all the early spotting i guess could have been just a build up for the big day lol. Anyways i hope so because i realy dont want to take another round of provera, im ready to get af done and over with so i can take my clomid. :) wait lol if its real period do i need to take the clomid? Or do you think ill ovulate on my own if i do have AF with out useing the provera? Anyone know Swift Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 27, 2012 8:00pm Ok ladys well af didnt show, Doctor said i didnt ovulate but i think he tested to early, he started me on my provera for 5 days, and then back to another round of CLOMID :)!! Im glad i heard back from them. UPDATE: I know your not suppost to do opks in the morning but since the 25 iv been taking them at 6am and they keep getting darker and darker ?? No positive yet, so today i test twice once morning and then again this afternoon and guess what it looked just like this mornings, what is going on, i wonder if my medroxyprogesterone(provera) has something to do with it. I cant find anything online, Oh and quick qusetion ok will i have to lol. maybe one of you ladys can help me out. #1- If i get a positive opk i read online that when you get a positive opk you should have sex the next 3 consecutive days and skip the fourth day and you can continue to bd just for fun. How does this OPK thing work? #2 when should i test just give me a time lol ? #3 ok so i thought of another one, The temp charting i have no idea how to do it, and one of you ladys said i can keep track on this site i found it but havent checked it out yet, How do i temp and does it matter if im off a hour in the morning or can i just take it befor i get out of bed in the morning no matter what time i wake? What does it mean when its low high consecutive?? TY I just noticed that the chart is only 28days, i dont have a 28day cycle. Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by mrsswift2010 » May. 27, 2012 8:46pm Wow Cass that is alot!! lol Here we go #1-My Dr told me the same! Have sex the day of and 2 days fallowing a + opk! #2- I test 2 times a day! Once at 11am and once at 6 pm as I was told these are the best times bc you may not get a + in the am but may get one in the Pm and vise versa! #3-From what my Dr told me (and I trust her with the life of my next child!) that Provera will have nothing to do with the outcome of my OPKs! Ant I chart my BBT on Fertilityfriend.com Its a very easy website to use and gives you directions on how to use it! Also you have to have a BBT Therometer I bought mine from my local drug store! You should take yout temp every morning at the same time before you talk or sit up and anything else you may do! and I have my alarm on my phone set on my bed side table and take my temp then put the info in my phone on my fertility friend app! Its very easy one you get the hang of it! As soon as my temp went up .5 degrees or more than mu usual temp i know I have O'd and it should stay up for 13 days or more If your Preggo! I hope all this info helped! Report April 24= Provera 10 days 1st round Clomid 50 mg Cd 5-9 June 6 CD 1 2 nd round Clomid 100 mg CD 5-9	mrsswift2010 Posts: 65

Reply by KATTACK » May. 28, 2012 1:56am Hey gurls hope you had a great weekend! sooo AF hasnt showed yet, i guess 100mg of clomid didnt work but this was my very first time on clomid so im not giving up hope. Im also switching doctors because my last one didnt want to monitor me so i really dont know whats going on with me right now. I just need my doctor to tell me if i should take provera again or just wait. but also ive been thinking about taking a break for a while and get healthier so maybe thats what im going to do i just dont think i can take getting bfns anymore :( Report	KATTACK Posts: 43

Reply by cass23 » May. 28, 2012 5:20pm Swift ty so much that helped out alot :) I have a bbt thermonator cant spell lol And i think ill check fertilty friend out ive been to that site befor. ty :) CM wet last two days?? by body is so mest up, i realy hope i ovulate this month, at this time in my life thats all i want lol just ovualtion and af on my own with out the meds that would make my yr lol. That and a BFP lol, ok so were trying this BD thing every other day :) and we are going to continue this until my period. So this way i dont have to worry about all this other crap because it just stresses me out so this is what im doing dif this month and hopefully hubby will be healthy because last month he was sick :( -BD every other day until AF -Take my primrose oil (to help CM) from CD1- ovulation -Do a ovulation test at 10am and 6pm every day from CD10- on..... -And track my cm on my calendar witch i have gotn good at lol -And try to take bbt every morning around 8:00 AND 8:30 AND I GUESS ILL FIGURE OUT THIS CHART. HOPEFULLY Good luck everyone. Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 28, 2012 5:22pm kat... I understand hun im tired of getn bfns to! Im stressed about all of it. Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 28, 2012 7:15pm Wow i love fertiltiyfriend.com this chart is so easy to use :) Report PRAYING4aneeding some	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by cass23 » May. 28, 2012 7:26pm Wow you guys, my chart says i shouldnt have a period till the 31st huh lol they did by my other cycles, hmmmmm Well will see what happens Report	cass23 Posts: 164

Reply by mrsswift2010 » May. 28, 2012 8:55pm Hope it goes well cass and im glad you like FF Report April 24= Provera 10 days 1st round Clomid 50 mg Cd 5-9 June 6 CD 1 2 nd round Clomid 100 mg CD 5-9	mrsswift2010 Posts: 65