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I know exactly how you feel in that department. Last time I got pregnant (2015), told hubby not to say anything and then I got a message on facebook saying congrats and I told her that now isn't the right time and she made a comment and then blocked me. The comment is still with me to this day (guess your not proud to be a mom). In my opinion, I would wait until you know for sure. My husband and I are trying again and am only 4dpo, but I don't want to say anything till after the ultrasound but sure I would tell him before then. Hope this helps.

My SO blabs all the time. Ive miscarried twice and both times he couldnt hold it in when I told him to wait at least until 14 weeks. We cant blame them, they just get too excited. Im 11dpo and I dont plan on telling him until maybe 20 weeks LOL just so im super sure, dont know how I'll hide it that long but I have blab-PTSD.

Maybe wait for your first doctors appointment to tell him or 6 weeks?