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I am so discouraged that I keep getting BFN each time. I was sure I got pregnant this month, but this is 13 dpo and still negative. I have had numerous symptoms and even cramping around the time of implantation and still negative. What do you ladies do to stay positive month after month after month?
5 Answers • 7 years ago
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Same boat. I was able to get confirmation from my dr that I did ovulate this month at least but during my period :/ you have just have to have an open mind. You have to look on the bright side. I will start BD every other day if possible and just have fun to avoid stress to not delay anything on my body.
7 years ago
I'm kind of a pessimist when it comes to things. This will be our 5th child and I am 37 which reduces our chances. I don't feel like af is going to start, but my cycles are normally very minimal anyways. Thank you for the support. I will just have to wait and see what happens in a couple of days.
7 years ago • Post starter
That's a great question (about staying positive). I think you just have to become as educated as you can and consistently use proven strategies. Otherwise, I think you have to try not to get your hopes up. The TWW can drive anyone crazy. Try not to think of TTC constantly. If you can get to a point where you can observe your symptoms and track you cycle as somewhat of an observer you can make it to the last day of the cycle with your sanity. I still haven't figured out how you can not obsess when it gets down to the wire when AF is late or is 1-2 days off without just giving up on charting and tracking. And some people do just that for a bit to give themselves a break from the mental exhaustion that can come with TTC for long periods of time.
"yourdays.com" is a site that only shows you your predicted fertile days without charting and tracking...to allow you to kinda unplug from the data overload...good luck!!!
*sticky baby dust to you*
7 years ago
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