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Scared!! Actively trying but past haunt
Hi. Please someone help me. Back 4 years ago my husband and I split due to not convincing a second child after 3 years of trying - ( he ran off with another). I went through blood tests and nurse said my ovulation bits were fine. Any way me and my new partner ( me 34 him 47) have spoke about having a baby and decided to try from this month. I'm so scared that it won't happen but I know I can have babies as I have 2 before but I don't want to lose him coz I may not catch.
I done ovulation tests and monitored discharge etc. Please someone tell me I'm stressing for nothing and advice me what to do. I can't go through pain upset and feel like a failure each month :(
Thanks
Diana x
1 Answer • 7 years ago
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I can't offer much advice, but when I DTD with my ex, we were young and dumb, and never used protection (PO is only method we used and not always). We were together for 4 1/2 years and I had one MC. I swore up and down, something was wrong with me...I stressed like crazy, even cried a lot because I thought I was infertile and would never have a baby because of it.
Fast forward, and me and my current BF end up having a baby without trying. Healthy as can be and all of that stress for nothing, thankfully! Anyway, my point is...the more you stress, the more likely you will face palm when you DO get pregnant. It's scary, but if you have 2 LOs already, chances are, you will have more. <3 Good luck and baby dust to you! [: I hope this eases your mind.<3
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