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Gemini1996

20, BFP need advice..

Yesterday I took a HPT and almost instantly it came back positive. I'm only 20 and my BF would prefer we terminate it rather than ruin our lives. I agree it would be better to terminate, but I'm so sad and heartbroken over the thought. The idea a that something is growing inside of me and I'm just going to get rid of it hurts so much. I honestly don't know what else to really do.. My BF has been having a hard time finding a job before I got pregnant and I only work part time at Starbucks/Target..
I just wish I could financially keep the baby.. I was on the Depo shot but my doctor couldn't accept my insurance anymore so I couldn't get my next 3-5 month birth control..
Now something is forming and it just really socks..

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Keep your baby (2 votes)
Terminate (0 votes)
Put up for adoption (3 votes)
Unsure/No opinion (0 votes)

3 Answers • 7 years ago

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dakotagurrl

I'm not gonna vote becuz this is something that is 100% ur decision. U have a hard enough decision ahead of u, I'm not gonna try to sway u one way or another. U need to do what's best for u, not what everyone else wants or what ppl consider to be "right". U have a lot of thinking ahead of urself. Make the decision that u can live with, without regrets. Do what YOU want, not ur bf, or ur mom, or ur BFF, or even strangers on the internet....YOU! At the end of the day, they will all go to sleep, u will be lying there wondering if u did the right thing.
I wish u the best of luck, with whichever route U decide to take! =))